Krazy Kid Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 recently me and my girlfriend(well now ex) decided that we should seperate and go live at home with our parents. we were living together for the past 3 years. we also have a child together who is now 3 years old. well about 2 weeks ago she told me she liked living with her mom because she has the space she needs, she said i was "smothering her before", we were always together. well this past weekend she came clean and told me she is not ready to raise a child and she never wanted to, she says she loves her but not as much as she should. she said she needs her space and right now feels we should seperate for good but won't say for sure if that what she wants . but she also told me when she was with me that she knows i never meant to "hurt her", and that she knows she is hurting me by wanting to be apart, she also said she loves me but "she is not IN love with me right now" i am just curious if maybe a year and a half apart might be a solution, because i love her with all my heart and i won't know what to do if she says she doesn't want to ever be with me again. she also said she does not know if her feelings toward me have anything to do with her not wanting a child. is there any hope, if i give her space to develop and do all the things she missed out on as a teenager? she said she needs to find herself, but i am afraid she will not come back, any advice? please help! Link to post Share on other sites
angelic_gal Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 one sentence for u: if u love someone, then set him/her free...if he/she comes back then he was urs and if not, he was never meant to be....... Also, my advice wud be to tell her ur true feelings and let her know how much u love her....and even then, if she chooses to go, then at least u tried ur best....and may be she doesn't deserved u by not being able to recognize ur true love for her.... anyways, best of luck for ur future!! i hope all ur problems get a solution soon, Take Care AnGeLic gAL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Krazy Kid Posted December 9, 2003 Author Share Posted December 9, 2003 Thanks! that's what i've been thinking but wanted someone else to confirm it. Hopefully things work out, thanks for taking time to reply Link to post Share on other sites
angelic_gal Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 hey no problem at all......i'm pleased that i was able to help u!!!!!!wish u best of luck in ur future life!!! don't worry, everything happens for good......Take Care, AnGeLic gAL Link to post Share on other sites
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