Nikki Sahagin Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 & weirdly (perhaps) I don't even care. A friend of his let it slip that he was drunk & kissed a girl and all I feel is a slight twinge of anger...but no hurt? It also lets slide that he didn't break up with me for 'other girls' - clearly that was part of it. How did you all feel when you found out your ex had kissed/slept etc with someone new? Link to post Share on other sites
weltrav Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I felt like an idiot for having tried to get her back and during that process, she kissed and then made out with another guy. There is a whole range of emotions, from feeling angry at her, to betrayed, to just plain hurt. It's hard to imagine the ex, especially if you still have feelings for her, doing stuff with another person that once was reserved for the two of you. Link to post Share on other sites
angelface78 Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 (edited) I saw a picture of the two of them in a hotel room on her birthday lounging near a hot tub. There were balloons in the background and so its obvious that he took her there to "celebrate" and obvious they had sex. I felt really hurt!! These pictures were on her myspace and not on his. But he let it be known that something like that was going down that night because his myspace headline said "we are going to have a goooood night tonight" He did all these things to hurt me. I cant explain the feeling i got when i saw that picture of them in the hotel I might as well have been there and witnessed everything. It made me sick to my stomach and to this day i cant believe that the man i spent 5 years with and was engaged to, had sex with someone else after only being broken up 2 months. Its been 4 months since the breakup and i still cant believe it!! Its almost surreal!!! Edited November 6, 2009 by angelface78 Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 (edited) Found out through one of her friends that my ex went back out with her abusive ex-bf. Of all the people she could of picked that was like another knife to my back - i was sick to my stomach...angry...confused... and then the dreams..uhh. Not a good place to be. That's what really closed the door for me and made NC easier because it extinguished all hope that i had. Edited November 6, 2009 by Odyssey Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted November 7, 2009 Share Posted November 7, 2009 I found out before she told me "she needed time"..that's fun! Cheaters..stay classy! Link to post Share on other sites
Lamak Posted November 7, 2009 Share Posted November 7, 2009 Thankfully I know next to nothing about my ex's new life. This is thanks to strong NC and letting go of mutual friends. All I know is she got a new job and is still crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted November 7, 2009 Share Posted November 7, 2009 Thankfully I know next to nothing about my ex's new life. This is thanks to strong NC and letting go of mutual friends. All I know is she got a new job and is still crazy. Ignorance is bliss! Wish I had that luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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