lookin4girl Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 My boyfriend and I are trying to have a threesome. This is something we've talked about in depth and it's something we want to do. The only trouble is finding the 3rd. We want a FMF threesome. We live in the Boston area and would like to meet up and first and make sure there's a connection. I would love to hear from you, even if it's just ideas on how to find a willing female. We tried the swinger's websites...failed miserably with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I have heard that three-somes really RUIN relationships. Now those hard-core swingers maybe not as they are not satisfied with the same penis/vageen. But so many risks involved. Disease would be number one. The odds of disease get higher when fluids are mixing and not to mention Herpes- just takes simple skin contact of an infected area ( not necessarily sore in active phase either , just needs to be shedding ).. I would recommend a doll over risking your health . Imagine one of you gets a disease from someone. Then what ? Are you or he going to stick around knowing your extra sexcapades caused this illness ? Now I know some will have sex with others because its in their genes to do so no matter what they read or hear. Not to also mention that laying down with others while married is a form of Adultry. Link to post Share on other sites
euroxx Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 Threesomes are relationship suicide most of the time. If you're really looking, craigslist. You have to weed through a lot of bs, but usually you'll get 1 or 2 real replies. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms. Joolie Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I think you and your boyfriend need to ask your friends who want to join you. See how THAT goes. It's a better option than just looking for someone for sex. Aren't you even concerned that your not enough anymore for your BF? Or that he wants another female? Not to mention that you want to be in bed with a female. I mean.... when do you draw the line with sexuality? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 Threesomes are relationship suicide most of the time. If you're really looking, craigslist. You have to weed through a lot of bs, but usually you'll get 1 or 2 real replies. I would be extremely leery of most of the creeps on Craigs List. Filled with scammers and opportunists . Not to mention likely some rapists and as we know one arrested serial killer. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I think you and your boyfriend need to ask your friends who want to join you. See how THAT goes. It's a better option than just looking for someone for sex. Aren't you even concerned that your not enough anymore for your BF? Or that he wants another female? Not to mention that you want to be in bed with a female. I mean.... when do you draw the line with sexuality? I think if you are willing to have sex with your friend , you must be willing to LOSE them as your friend . Link to post Share on other sites
Ms. Joolie Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I think if you are willing to have sex with your friend , you must be willing to LOSE them as your friend . Seriously. So use a stranger's body, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 Seriously. So use a stranger's body, right? Well I would choose neither a friend nor a stranger. But since I value my friends they would NEVER be a choice to do something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
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