Feeling-lost Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Okay, you guys have probably read about my post from before on the situation of me and my ex-boyfriend. We broke up about 3 month ago..But, still see each other weekly, and talked to each other everyday. Basically we still do all the things that b/f and g/f do..Except that we don't have a name of bf and gf.. Here what I am confuse about..This past weekend, he asked me to do something that I am very uncomfortable about and it still in my thought till now Here's what happen..We were hanging out at his place this past weekend with all his friends drinking etc..So, everybody went home except for one of his best friend..Well, we were just sitting there discussing about our past relationship and stuff & my ex asked me if I would do it if he asked me to show my friend my breast or butt..So, I asked him if he was for real and he say yes..So, he asked me in front of his friend to show him my breast..So, I got upset and scream at him that he was being a pigs for asking me that..I felt so ashame that he would even asked me to do that..What is he thinking? I felt so hurt that I wanted to cry..Then he said that he was only kidding with me.. I don't know how any other girl would feel bout this situation..But, to me I was disgusted the fact that he asked me to do that for his friend..Is this mean that he no longer have respect for me and had fallen out of love for me? Advice from a guy or gal would greatly appreciate, for i am feeling really hurt right.. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 I would say he is a loser for asking you such a thing... and he definately doesnt deserve to have you as a friend OR a girlfriend....... id say drop him.... you could do so much better..... it sounds like you have more class than he has brains....... good luck Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 I would say he is a loser for asking you such a thing... and he definately doesnt deserve to have you as a friend OR a girlfriend....... id say drop him.... you could do so much better..... it sounds like you have more class than he has brains....... good luck lost is so right: dump the loser, now. He has absolutely no respect for you. Link to post Share on other sites
CDN Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Doesn't sound like this guy has much respect for you. Even if he was "only" kidding, it's a pretty demeaning joke. Find a new guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Feeling-lost Posted December 9, 2003 Author Share Posted December 9, 2003 I love this guy with all my heart..But, what had happen had make me realize that need to move on with my life..You guys are right..This has showed that he have lack of respect for me allot.. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Oh, this is way beyond lack of respect; it's right up there in 'behaviours of an ignorant jerk' territory. Nobody needs a person who'd treat them that way. Make the break permanent! Link to post Share on other sites
Caddy Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 He is a jacka$$! Don't hang out with him or his friends anymore. Any guy that would treat you that way is just a bigtime scumbag in training. In my Ricki Lake voice Dump the zero and get yourself a hero! Link to post Share on other sites
Fancy Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 This guy is a loser deluxe. If you spend one more second in his presence, you'll be asking for whatever shoddy treatment you receive from him. Run! Link to post Share on other sites
mixedup1 Posted December 14, 2003 Share Posted December 14, 2003 From a very level headed guy, that would be me, If I really cared for someone and respected them and wanted to be loving you for a long time, I would never do such a thing. He does not deserve your presence let alone a kiss or a hug. He's an abusive, non caring PIG. Believe me your much better off with a pet rock than him. I promise. The pet rock cares more about you than he ever will. He's a definite dumpster candidate for sure. Dump the swine. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted December 14, 2003 Share Posted December 14, 2003 Dump him fast and RUN!!!! Then spend some time doing things that reaffirm your value and uniqueness. Be with people who treat you well, and you treat THEM extra-nicely now too. Get this toxic squirt out of your head ASAP. Altogether, Loveshackers: "Dump him, dump him, kick him to the street, Lose him, confuse him, call him 'rotten meat', Move on, groove on, your life's about to start, Celebrate the day you shoved him in a broken shopping cart!" Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted December 14, 2003 Share Posted December 14, 2003 Feeling Lost, I'd spend one more afternoon with him.....inviting him over.....where all my girlfriends were waiting......and maybe a camera...... .....I'll be singing with SoleMate....... Link to post Share on other sites
ca Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 He is a A-grade jerk, and perhaps by now u should have broken up wit the ass too! U know, evne the coupla minutes over the phone to tell him, to get lost itself is a time-waste on men like that. Good Riddance to bad rubbish , and HELLO BEAUTIFUL world !!! Wish u luck from here own.. keep the faith....... Link to post Share on other sites
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