bluestraps Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 (edited) Are you looking for comitment, or a marriage proposal/engagement. It sounds like to me you have a comitment from him. Is he seing other women ? Or has he been with you for five years !!I just went through a 10 year relationship, which was complicated to say the least. My girlfriend had been wanting us to get married for years. Let's just say I believe I was commited. Unfortunatly she is the kind that really wanted to get married quickly. I think she tried to wait just like you. I never left her or tried to date others while togther. But she was the one who could'nt stay faithful. I had decided to go back to school and we talked about if we could wait. She was fine with it. Be carefull of the advice here on LS. Just because your boyfriend has'nt asked you to marry him yet does'nt mean he wont. You need to talk to him about your desire to get married. But dont make him feel like you are nagging him. In my case I knew that I wanted to ask her and marry her, but the decisions of life got in the way. I reailize that I may have waited too long.You, like my ex girlfriend are in the same position. You dont want to waste 5 years. This is why you need to find out what his intentions are. Dont assume he wont ask you If he cant give a reason, you may want to remind him that its hard to find a woman who he will want to be with . I wish I had'nt waited Edited November 13, 2009 by bluestraps Link to post Share on other sites
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