EcstasyX6 Posted November 9, 2009 Share Posted November 9, 2009 It seems mostly OW post here. What about the OM of a MW? Why do you stay, and what made you get involved in the first place? Is it alluring to steal a woman away from her man, or more so something you fell into? Is it the non-commitment that appeals to you or are you someone who's patiently or not so patiently waiting for her to get a divorce? Link to post Share on other sites
Author EcstasyX6 Posted November 9, 2009 Author Share Posted November 9, 2009 If my terminology is off, pardon me. I'm still learning the lingo here. Would it me MS, if he's single or divorced seeing a MW? Those are the men I'm referring to for the most part, but I'm curious about what MM in this situation would have to say as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Jacky Posted November 9, 2009 Share Posted November 9, 2009 It seems mostly OW post here. What about the OM of a MW? Why do you stay, and what made you get involved in the first place? Is it alluring to steal a woman away from her man, or more so something you fell into? Is it the non-commitment that appeals to you or are you someone who's patiently or not so patiently waiting for her to get a divorce? There seems to be less of us OM here or we are more quiet than others? I have never thought that it would be alluring to steal a woman away from her man. The A was more of something which I fell into, an emotion which we both couldn't control. Not going to go into my long story, basically we started to get closer then eventually fell in love with each other. We communicated a lot because of her dissatifaction with her husband and she cannot communicate with him since he refuses to listen. We spoke during the day and the evening then feelings grew more and more. More time we spent together, the more I love her. I would like her to get a divorce however she is not willing to do so because of family. She has got 1 kid and is due in 2 weeks. We had a lot of arguments, mainly about her choosing her husband which she is no longer in love with instead of me. I suppose is diffucult when there are young children involved. I never thought of myself as a patient person and I know that she isn't going to get a divorce because she doesn't want her kids to suffer and her parents to get upset. Even though personally I never thought staying in a loveless marriage for duty is a right reason. More and more I learn about her relationship with her H, the more I think the love they have is for family not romantic love. Because when I asked her the reason why she isn't going to leave, 1st she said because of her kids then 2nd because of her parents being upset. She never mentioned anything about her husband until I asked her. Like I said I am not a patient person and she is unlikely to get a divorce, I really don't know why I am still in love with her and faintly hoping for something to happen between us....haven't spoken to her for a few days since she is staying with family at the moment so we can't speak because there are other people... There hasn't been one day which I havent thought about her. At the moment is emotions vs reality? Link to post Share on other sites
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