DenverSailor Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 Greetings all! Recently, I have expressed my feelings to this gal whom i have known for around 2 mths. She says that she had a lill crush on me during the 2 mths but it died off. I asked if we could start off as friends, take it slow and see where the future takes us. She said, however, that she develops feelings really fast and dies off fast too. She says she is fickle. I am not sure but i think she has a 'lets just be friends attitude' now? We've went out a couple of times but not on a 1-1 basis. I think she finds that we are lacking in chemistry? But personally i feel that we have not interacted face to face and gone out much? (We chat daily for the past 2 mths online) What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
Reckless Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 I think that she sounds like a bit of a dippy airhead to me, priding yourself on being 'fickle' is like announcing you don't wash, something even if it were true you'd want to keep to yourself. Still 'different strokes' so, if you're not put off by her flighty-butterfly approach ask her out on a one-on-one date, if she refuses you have your answer and if she says yes and you don't find her shallow, then you'll be happy (for about two months). R. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DenverSailor Posted December 10, 2003 Author Share Posted December 10, 2003 Thanks for ur reply Hmm.. she did mention though.. that although feelings for her... come quickly and go quickly.. if she really likes someone.. she will know and it will be for a long time. (As justified by her last relationship of 2 yrs?) Maybe the reason why i am still so bothered by this is because shes been everpresent daily in my life for the past 2 mths. Hmmmmmmmmm............................ Link to post Share on other sites
dlb311 Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 I think you should really think about her actions. Just let her be you told her how you felt right. That you liked her and wanted to see where this could go. I think she she is immature and needs more time to grow up before lettting herself get involved in an adult relationship. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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