ADF Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Women often complain that men are only interested in having one-night stands or getting them into some sort of FWB nonsense. I hear you, and I sympathize. However, those of us seeking more serious relationships have our own reasons for rushing things, and it isn't just about satisfying our libidos. Often it seems most desirable women--i.e. women who are warm, smart, witty, funny, charming, etc--are already involved with someone else. They are married, living with someone, etc. But once in a while, a window of opportunity opens. She breaks up, or gets divorced. And then it starts. Every man she knows swoops in and tries to get her attention. All those "male friends" who've been hanging around her for years suddenly decide they are in love with her. If we do what women often suggest--take our time, get to know her first--we're lost. We'll simply be pushed aside by some other guy who is more aggressive. Then it's back to the dreaded friend zone. See what I'm saying? Link to post Share on other sites
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