marc_d Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 Hey ladies, I wont go into the long ass story but me and my girl of 7 years have been on a break for a while. Neither of us are seeing anyone else, but one night after clubbing when I took her home, I was holding the door to her house open for her sister and she came up from behind me and hugged me from behind and then as she went in she hugged me from the front. I am led to believe that the hug showed a sign of her wanting to be close to me still. She is not the affectionate type with her other friends and Im just trying to look for signs that shows Im not being treated as just a friend. What do you think? You think this hug from behind is a good sign? Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 You think this hug from behind is a good sign? I don't know.... Did you check to see that you still had your wallet?? Link to post Share on other sites
dlb311 Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 But she broke up with you right? If so do you hang out all the time. If so its hard to tell. Because that means you are like her friend and she gets both. She loves you I am sure but instead of facing what broke you up and decide weither you are the one for her or not. She gets to play and you are still there. I think you should back off a little bite and see if she calls you more and wants to hang with you. The hug could mean she is interested again. I would watch her moves during the next few times you hang out and see if she still acts that way. If not she may have felt lonely, or drunk or maybe even horney. Other wise if she keeps it up the flirty ways that you so far are not use to as just friends. Then I would think maybe she wants to work things out. Maybe you should ask her. I know its scary because if she says no then you are like crap I might have ruined our friendship because she will think I want her back and we can't Just Be Friends. But if you are reading in to this hug like this then maybe you can't just be her friend. My advice is to hang back for a week or two and she how she reacts if she doesn't care much or notice then she probably isn't interested in you in that way. If she does and calls more or wants to hang out then I would say bring it up. You have nothing to lose you and her already ended the loving affair. If you are wrong then my advice is to think about if you still just want to be her friend. I would move on and hang out with her but hang out with other people more often because you are waisting your time and feelings on someone who isn't worthy of them. Good Luck let me know how it goes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author marc_d Posted December 10, 2003 Author Share Posted December 10, 2003 She wasnt drunk that night and I doubt she was horny because she slept the whole car ride from NYC back into Jersey, she was just tired. Anyways, certain circumstances made me back off this past month and she has contacted me often by email, text message and occasional phone calls and asked me out for lunch and wound up spending the whole day out. Anyways, there is really too much history here to explain you the whole story so I dont expect any of you to try to anylize my whole relationship. After all, its been over 7 years! no way anyone could completley understand whats going on exactly right now, even if I typed my ass off. Im just curious about the hug from behind. More positive thoughts are appreciated! Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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