When she asks you to stay the night???

[crazy_grl]

Ok, ok I don't keep hair down there so the thought about combing it never occured to me LOL

 

Maybe not combing, but he sure as heck better trim it.

[justforfun]

Ok, ok I don't keep hair down there so the thought about combing it never occured to me LOL

 

Not even a bit at the front? I have to. Otherwise I find it looks creepily prepubescent.

[quicksand]

You want to know what she means? I speak out of experience with girls telling me stuff like that...

 

-Option 1: she means that you can sleep at her place and NOTHING more. If it's option 1 I'd be cautious about your feelings towards her. It could mean she's only looking for a friend and isn't interested in more.

 

-Option 2: she does want to proceed further. Then you're lucky . I know this is what every person dreams of, but there are some crazy persons in the world that interpret things differently. Obviously that phrase means for a lot of people sex, but there are persons who don't think further and just think it's ok to say things like that.

If you expect sex, then you could potentially be in trouble if she just wants things to be friendly.

 

I'd suggest you don't expect anything from the sleepover and only think of it as being a friendly gesture. That way you won't get disappointed that you won't be sleeping with her.

 

Ofcourse you could also subtly try to find out what she means, but just have a good time, because you could get a headache about thinking what she actually means.

 

I also need to add that if you won't get sex, she's really dubious. Can you trust her? What if she says: can I sleep at your place and only means sleeping on the sofa and nothing more? I'd pay attention to this girl if she stays ambigious.

 

I wish for you that she's hinting towards the direction of option 2, maybe not tonight, but in a short period of time

[justforfun]

You want to know what she means? I speak out of experience with girls telling me stuff like that...

 

-Option 1: she means that you can sleep at her place and NOTHING more. If it's option 1 I'd be cautious about your feelings towards her. It could mean she's only looking for a friend and isn't interested in more.

 

-Option 2: she does want to proceed further. Then you're lucky . I know this is what every person dreams of, but there are some crazy persons in the world that interpret things differently. Obviously that phrase means for a lot of people sex, but there are persons who don't think further and just think it's ok to say things like that.

If you expect sex, then you could potentially be in trouble if she just wants things to be friendly.

 

So, speaking from experience you have deduced that she either wants to have sex with him or she doesn't want to have sex with him?

 

That's deep.

 

I also need to add that if you won't get sex, she's really dubious. Can you trust her? What if she says: can I sleep at your place and only means sleeping on the sofa and nothing more? I'd pay attention to this girl if she stays ambigious.

Not having sex in a situation where another person could think you wanted sex makes you untrustworthy?

 

I think you need to get out there and get a bit more experience kiddo.

[justforfun]

Been going out with this great girl I met online, and tomorrow night will be our 4th date. She came up with the idea of me staying overnight at her place, and spending the next day together. Any suggestions what that means? We have'nt had sex, because she didn't want to rush things, which I respect, finally a woman with morals. We have kissed alot, which has been great. So, I don't want to assume anything here, but does that mean she wants to sleep with me if she asks to stay over or maybe I just have to see how things play out later in the evening?

 

Come on...you can't just leave us hanging like that! Tell, tell, tell, what happened?

[DanielMadr]

Been going out with this great girl I met online, and tomorrow night will be our 4th date. She came up with the idea of me staying overnight at her place, and spending the next day together. Any suggestions what that means? We have'nt had sex, because she didn't want to rush things, which I respect, finally a woman with morals.

 

Or a woman with not enough interest or trust for whatever reason;)

 

We have kissed alot, which has been great. So, I don't want to assume anything here, but does that mean she wants to sleep with me if she asks to stay over or maybe I just have to see how things play out later in the evening?

 

Yes. Don't assume anything. That's how daterape happens. She can bless you in the morning and curse you 5 minutes later. Girls are like that. You say something stupid about your mother and BAM, no sex.

Try to go step by step...mouth, neck, breasts, neck, breasts, mouth, mouth, breasts, neck again,.......penetration.

[justforfun]

Try to go step by step...mouth, neck, breasts, neck, breasts, mouth, mouth, breasts, neck again,.......penetration.

 

I'll assume that for the sake of brevity you have omitted more than you have included.

[DanielMadr]

I'll assume that for the sake of brevity you have omitted more than you have included.

 

I'm not a fan of rimming and I have no feet fetish either.

 

But yeah, besides that I ommited quite a lot. On the other hand I knew a girl who found foreplay disgusting. She was very kinky. Ropes, blindfolds, you know... I missed the foreplay.

[justforfun]

I'm not a fan of rimming and I have no feet fetish either.

 

 

I don't have a foot fetish...but I do like rimming a lot, both giving and receiving

 

But yeah, besides that I omitted quite a lot. On the other hand I knew a girl who found foreplay disgusting. She was very kinky. Ropes, blindfolds, you know... I missed the foreplay.

 

That's tough. Wise decision to move on.