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Hey everyone. I am trying to win back my GF of over 7 years currently and I think things are slowly getting better for us and I know I am becoming much stronger than I ever thought I could be. We have to be strong and not act needy to show them someone they will want to return to. Anyways, I have a great tool for you all that will teach you amazing things to help bring a relationship back or just even to learn how to keep a future relationship together! Its a book called "The Divorce Remedy" by Michelle Weiner Davis. I dont make any $$ if you buy this book but I am promoting it because its soooo helpful! You dont have to be married to read this! Its about any relationship. And one more thing! I know you all probably have friends and family that are trying to be supportive by telling you to forget about the person and move on but you should not quit if you dont want to. Unless it is an abusive relationship. Your family and friends are biased towards you and cant know how you feel. If you dont want to move on, than good for you! Do what you can to win them back. It might not work in all cases but if there is a deep true love for eachother at the foundation of all the problems, it is possible to get back those feelings. You must be patient and please get that book to learn other important steps. I hope this can be of some help to everyone!!

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I got my heart broken about 4 months ago. I had no doubts we would spend the rest of our lives together. But he decided we where going to move in together and two weeks before the move he broke up with me. scared I am sure. but he now says he needs to do his own thing and isn't sure what the future holds for him. I tried staying in touch and taking the steps the book said but he just doesn't want me as for now. He would hang with me. But nothing changed in that when I stayed away he came after me he missed me.

 

I am moving on with me life finally. I know one day he will wake up and say what did I do. I know I wasn't ready but I let her just go when she was so perfect for me. We were so good we were so in love sometimes stress, and life can get in the way of passion. But he got scared because life was moving to fast.

 

I am out and meeting new people have a good time. I miss him more then anything. And I had a family member that said don't give up but after she sees how he just doesn't want to help it right now then there isn't much else I can do. Your story could be different and I hope it is. I have a feeling that when someone leaves someone else for a reason like this where nothing really went wrong it was timing, or be scared they realize what the lost in time. But they need that time to realize it. So I hopelessly pray that one day he wakes up and says gosh I really had it all.

 

but I felt like you did after ready that book

I am not saying it doesn't work because I am sure if does but for certain kinds of break ups.

 

Good Luck

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