Nexa Posted December 11, 2003 Share Posted December 11, 2003 Ok here is one thing I don't understand and hopefully somebody out there can help me understand this one.... I recently just made my first post here about my recent break up with my bf of 5 months, titled, "What did I do wrong", that posting pretty much explains my whole story if you are interested in finding out more information. Anyway, I was not the one who decieded to break up, it was he who said, "let's stay at a friendship status". And he also told me that he still has feelings and stays in contacts with some of his ex's. I remember him telling me that these 5 girls that he was with dumped him everytime. And I the only first pathetic person to get dumped by him and why, becasue I was wrestling with another guy!!! He told me these girls left him for other guys!!! You should have seen it, he would never return any of my phone calls or anything! It was as if he was trying to blow me off! My question is why does he hold these chicks so near and dear to his heart, and me, well he wants to just pretend it never happened? 5 months! I grew close to this guy emotionally, and he never did. Oh these days are going to be tough, I really want to call the guy and "hang out", but I really think he would not have a good time at all. It kinda makes me think that there might be something wrong with me? I don't know any ideas????? Much Thanks Nexa Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted December 11, 2003 Share Posted December 11, 2003 Ok, so knowing the little bit I know about men AND woman... we like the ones that play hard to get. I know I'm always attracted to that anyway. I will usually choose a guy that is virtually out of my reach. Actually, some people argue that people like me will choose "unavailable" men, because I myself am afraid of commitment. I don't think this is true for me, but I could see it in some people. To conclude, if I act like I want a guy... its too easy for him. But humans are strange. That's my only thoughts right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted December 11, 2003 Share Posted December 11, 2003 I've broken up with great guys for no reason other than they just weren't right for me. On the other hand, I've been dumped for some of the skankiest women! The deal is....there aren't any set rules or reasons. Some relationships work for BOTH people involved....and some don't. It comes with the territory of dating. You can only try it out...and if it doesn't work....you move on. Sometimes you are the dumper....sometimes you are the dumpee. Link to post Share on other sites
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