LisaUk Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 Apologies to all on the boards, I probably shouldn't be here at the moment I am not in a good place right now, having just been dumped on from a great height once again by yet another guy. I will leave you all in peace, just wanted to say sorry for my angry and bitter posts today. Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 Lisa Sorry to hear that, but you caught me off guard. You were seeing someone else? Somehow I missed that Please post more and catch me up to date. Your friend Gallon Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 Apologies to all on the boards, I probably shouldn't be here at the moment I am not in a good place right now, having just been dumped on from a great height once again by yet another guy. I will leave you all in peace, just wanted to say sorry for my angry and bitter posts today. You have nothing to apologize for - you were expressing how you felt in real time. That's honest and raw. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 You've nothing to apolgise for here young Lady! But I'm curious as to why your even out trying to date? I know! I know! But your in law school, and if English law school ~ aka ~ "The Paper Chase" is anythig like American law school (and I'm sure it is and more so) then you've no time for the boys! One hour of class room time = four times home work time! When in grad school or law school that means one hour of class time = eight hours of homework! What you need to be working on is getting yourself to where you can tell any and every man that they can just kiss your @zz! You become self supporting, independent, etc! You flip that gender tables? What have you've got to offer me? What can you do for me? I know what I'm bringing to the table! What are you bringing? Its no longer what they have to offer, its about what they have to offer YOU? You've a lot of good love to offer the right guy that appreciates it! Forget the @zzhats that are incapable of doing so! Forget them! Your so far ahead of most your thinking your behind! You've already 'lapped' them twice over! QUIT beating yourself up! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted November 15, 2009 Author Share Posted November 15, 2009 (edited) It's complicated Gallon, I think I metioned him a while ago, it's been an emotional thing, b/c there is distance involved and I expressed to him that I was not ready for anything more yet, but he would not give me the time and space I needed and kept pushing me for more than I was able to offer at this time. It makes me sad but as wonderful as he is, I need someone that can respect my needs and allow things to develop at the slow pace I need after everything with my ex. Gunny, as always, you are right, I do have an enormous of amount of study, I tried very hard to give this man some time and attention every day and I was more than happy to do that b/c I felt he was worth it, but now I will be concentrating my efforts on my studies and my future. I decided after my ex left me, I will never be reliant on a man for anything ever again and I will work d**m hard to make sure I am not. Edited November 15, 2009 by LisaUk spelling Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 Lisa I do remember. I thought that this was a dead end last month. Post here, tell us about it, you know you are amongst friends. If you can, ship send him over here, and I will punch him in his nose. He hurt my friend. Your friend Gallon Link to post Share on other sites
Auroracoladybug Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 Lisa...nobody can push you faster than you want to go...take a breath and don't apologize...focus on you, focus on school, and enjoy your friends...unfortunately at times even friends move too fast or go in directions we don't want to (look at what my supposed best friend did to me) but we can only control ourselves and make our wishes known...good luck in your studies Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted November 15, 2009 Share Posted November 15, 2009 (((((((((hugs))))))))) Lisa.. Link to post Share on other sites
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