Single n' bored, need advice on getting back on track.

[SingleNHatingIt]

Ever since I broke up w/ my X about 8 months ago I've found my self bored and w/out much motivation. At first I was depressed and all down & out but I've gotten past that and really want to start living again but I just can't find anything to do.

 

All my girl friends are involved and suddenly I'm like and infectious disease to them so hanging out w/ my girls is mostly out of the question. They are always busy w/ their boyfriends

 

I want to start doing new things, meeting new people but I just don't know how to go about specially on my own w/out my girls who I've always had. How corny would I look going to places alone.

 

Maybe a hobby would help, I don't know I'm so bored all the time. I have a little girl and aside from the stuff I do with her I really have no social life.

 

I come home, I do homework w/ my daughter, I cook, we watch a little TV or read together and then she goes to bed and there I am.....25 years old, so much energy and no one to share it with.

 

Help.

[moimeme]

There are a bazillion clubs you can belong to - lots are online, lots are off, and some are both. What sorts of interests/hobbies have you? Travel? Music? Crafts? Collecting? You can then look in your local paper and neighbourhood papers to see what meetings/clubs/classes there are that you might like. You can also poke around on the Web and check your phone book for societies and clubs. Too, you could become a volunteer - there are thousands of causes needing bodies to do their work.

 

good luck!

[Arabess]

Another alternate idea:

 

There is a website called SingleParentsMeet.com. I haven't checked it out but have a couple of internet girlfriends who just love it. It's hard to go out when you have children. This site is a way to meet other people who are in your same predicament.

 

GOOD LUCK!!!