When one's caught in the act, is it justified if BS hits cheater...

[samsungxoxo]

No in no way I'm saying violence should be the answer if you find out you got cheated on but imagine this....

You cared about this person so much that they acted in total disrespect towards you as well as your house. You catch them either in your bed, bathroom or any other area of your own house doing it with someone else..

 

Well obviously I would break up, dumb the ''no good for nothing cheating boyfriend'' but at times you never know how you would react in that case...

Let's say the impact is too powerful that I were to take physical action on him and either slap him hard or punch him across the face. In that case the no good for nothing scumbag would more than likely deserved it. After all it was my house.

 

If I ever were to hit my boyfriend, which will not, other than self-defense that might be another reason too. Not saying I will hit in that case but you never know the impact it causes in that moment, in that disgusting case...

Edited November 16, 2009 by samsungxoxo

[Dexter Morgan]

Let's say the impact is too powerful that I were to take physical action on him and either slap him hard or punch him across the face. In that case the no good for nothing scumbag would more than likely deserved it. After all it was my house.

 

If I ever were to hit my boyfriend, which will not, other than self-defense that might be another reason too. Not saying I will hit in that case but you never know the impact it causes in that moment, in that disgusting case...

 

 

no, it wouldn't be justified to hit anyone.

 

however, as the owner of the house, if I caught my so-called SO in bed with the guy red handed, since its my house, I feel I would be justified in slapping a sleeper hold on the guy, draggin him downstairs, and throwing him out of the house without his clothes. Just defending my home from an intruder ya know.

 

then hopefully my so-called SO would still be naked, and I'd ever so gently:rolleyes: escort her downstairs....and throw her out without her clothes as well

 

then I'd call the cops on them for indecent exposure:lmao:

[Blue Eyed Brain]

never is it accepted to hit

[Javelin]

You can never justify striking another person.

 

Fortunately, that's what punching bags are mainly used for.

 

However, some people are known to, 'snap' in certain situations! In this instance, an adrenaline fueled rage could make someone lose control to the point of a physical assault on the cheaters!

[samsungxoxo]

However, some people are known to, 'snap' in certain situations! In this instance, an adrenaline fueled rage could make someone lose control to the point of physical assault!

That's the thing. You can always state how you will never slap or hit in any way your SO but there are these certain occassions when one might lose it.

On few movies, it shows how a woman would slap the hell out of her cheating husband. Even once on another forum, a guy looking for advice on how to reconcile with his g/f posted on how she slapped him hard. In this case, he told her himself and yet she still slapped him...

Then off course on a Spanish soap opera, a husband slapped the hell out of his wife when he caught her in bed with lover on a hotel. In that case, he was starting to exceed till her nose bled. His friend had to get a hold of him. Lucky it was just a soap opera. Otherwise, it's jail time for him....

Edited November 17, 2009 by samsungxoxo

[RedDevil66]

It's always good to not lower yourself to the cheaters level and not hit. You handle it with grace and dignity.

 

You KICK HIM IN THE BA((S

 

When the Wife of the man I was cheating with confronted me, she bought me a shot at a bar and sat me down to tell me what a scum bag I was. That was WAY worse than had she hit me.

She showed class and I was a classless cheat which made me feel worse.

Her courage taught me to get a grip and become a better person

[seibert253]

A buddy of mine came home early one day to surprise his wife. Guess who got the surprise.

 

She and her OM were so "into it", that they totally didn't notice my buddy open the bedroom door, and walk right up to the bed.

 

Imagine the shock and horror the OM felt when he looked over and saw the H of the woman he was f#cking standing 5 feet away.

 

My bud pulled out his wallet, threw a 5 spot on his bed, and said "here dude, go get yourself something decent". My bud then left.

 

He came to my house, we talked, then went back to his house. The OM and his wife were gone. Helped him pack her sh#t up, and we sat it on the street in front of his home. She called him while we were there, wanting to come home and an talk. He told her to bring a truck or van when she does, so she can get her stuff.

 

His new wife is awesome. Best thing that ever happened to him.

[samsungxoxo]

A buddy of mine came home early one day to surprise his wife. Guess who got the surprise.

 

She and her OM were so "into it", that they totally didn't notice my buddy open the bedroom door, and walk right up to the bed.

 

Imagine the shock and horror the OM felt when he looked over and saw the H of the woman he was f#cking standing 5 feet away.

 

My bud pulled out his wallet, threw a 5 spot on his bed, and said "here dude, go get yourself something decent". My bud then left.

 

He came to my house, we talked, then went back to his house. The OM and his wife were gone. Helped him pack her sh#t up, and we sat it on the street in front of his home. She called him while we were there, wanting to come home and an talk. He told her to bring a truck or van when she does, so she can get her stuff.

Unbelievable. She cheated on him in the most disgusting way and yet still wanted to come home to talked things out....... Wow. There's nothing to talk about in that case. Your buddy responded good.. calling truck to get her stuff.. lol

His new wife is awesome. Best thing that ever happened to him.

Glad to hear he has now a loving wife that cares about him and respects his house.

If one's gonna be a cheater, at least have the little decency to do it somewhere else, not in their spouse's house.

[EarthGirl]

No in no way I'm saying violence should be the answer if you find out you got cheated on but imagine this....

You cared about this person so much that they acted in total disrespect towards you as well as your house. You catch them either in your bed, bathroom or any other area of your own house doing it with someone else..

 

Well obviously I would break up, dumb the ''no good for nothing cheating boyfriend'' but at times you never know how you would react in that case...

Let's say the impact is too powerful that I were to take physical action on him and either slap him hard or punch him across the face. In that case the no good for nothing scumbag would more than likely deserved it. After all it was my house.

 

If I ever were to hit my boyfriend, which will not, other than self-defense that might be another reason too. Not saying I will hit in that case but you never know the impact it causes in that moment, in that disgusting case...

 

no it's not ok. it's just not ok. if you do that you actually hit a person you're supposed to love no matter how much they have hurt you...you're in effect canceling out any love you supposedly had for them. that is awful. You do whatever you have to to keep yourself from committing violence against someone you love.:mad::mad:

[tryagaintoday]

No, not ever justifiable.

Although inside of me I want to break up every part of her...

[phineas]

Never touched her.

Never raised my fist to her either.

I did yell.

LOUDLY.

 

for all of 5 minutes.

 

I'm fairly certain the whole streat heard she was cheating on me.

 

I didn't yell at her again after that.

she wasn't worth it.

[Dexter Morgan]

never is it accepted to hit

 

unless in self-defense

[samsungxoxo]

I did yell.

LOUDLY.

 

for all of 5 minutes.

 

I'm fairly certain the whole streat heard she was cheating on me.

 

I didn't yell at her again after that.

she wasn't worth it.

LOL, I like that. Everyone heard it lol. Good work on embarrassing her, after all it's nothing to be ashamed of when it's true what they did so I bet she didn't mind.. lol....

unless in self-defense

Yes that would be my reason. As for the cheating part, you see many people (those that never has this happened to them) state how they would just pack their belongings outside and walk away, but who knows how they can react if they were to encounter this horrible scene. I can imagine then afterwards the owner, would have to buy a new bed. If it was done in the bathroom, damn, I dunno in that case, buy spray maybe....

Then I imagine say the BS caught the cheater in his/her and slap them/hit them whatever. Knowing they got busted, they still make a report for assault, can the BS be arrested even for that? Oh boy, what a horrible situation...

Edited November 17, 2009 by samsungxoxo

[reservoirdog1]

A buddy of mine came home early one day to surprise his wife. Guess who got the surprise.

 

She and her OM were so "into it", that they totally didn't notice my buddy open the bedroom door, and walk right up to the bed.

 

Imagine the shock and horror the OM felt when he looked over and saw the H of the woman he was f#cking standing 5 feet away.

 

My bud pulled out his wallet, threw a 5 spot on his bed, and said "here dude, go get yourself something decent". My bud then left.

 

He came to my house, we talked, then went back to his house. The OM and his wife were gone. Helped him pack her sh#t up, and we sat it on the street in front of his home. She called him while we were there, wanting to come home and an talk. He told her to bring a truck or van when she does, so she can get her stuff.

 

His new wife is awesome. Best thing that ever happened to him.

 

Your buddy has just become my personal hero.

[Spoiled]

At least a man could hit and/or fire and later state he thought she was being raped.

 

I am positive that if I walked in on my H, there would be a serious brawl.