Smoove Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 If i still luv my ex y do feel so angry? I mean if it was my fault for the breakup i guess i am just angry at myself. I mean i know i hav to giv her space n all but its killin me bad knowing that she is probably happy and doesnt care 4 me. Sorry guys but i just dont know where i could let go of dis anger. Everyday i go thru the same emotions. I mean even when we were both together, nuthin was goin my way, i lost like two jobs, i was doin good at skool and my parents hated me cos da relationship, now it just took a turn for the worse, dont know where to go. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 If I still love my ex, why do I feel so angry? I mean, if it was my fault for the breakup?--I guess I am just angry at myself. I know I have to give her space and such, but its killing me knowing that she is probably happy and doesnt care for me. Sorry, but I just dont know where I can release the emotions that I go through every day. Even when we were together, everything was going wrong, I lost two jobs. I was doing well at school, and my parents hated me because of the relationship, now it took a turn for the worst, and I don't know where to go. (Sorry for retyping it, I'm sort of obsessive-compulsive and like things the right way, and it was for me, not you--Don't be offended) As for your situation, you didn't give enough specifics. But it sounds like you need some time with yourself, and you can't validate yourself by the relationship that you're in. Focus on school, work, and get some hobbies, have some fun. Women are attracted to a busy man Link to post Share on other sites
maxmuscle Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 Smoove, Hang in there. I feel you. I wake up mad and sad often. Sometimes I feel like why even bother getting out of bed. But that's our reality. I miss my ex so much, but I am focusing on myself. I am in the gym six days a week. I have just purchase some excellent skin care products called Anthony. I am drinking lots of water. I am praying more to God about my problems. I am not asking him to bring her back, but to point me in the right direction. I am trying to find me a better job to make more money. I have set goals for myself. I am always thinking or ways to better myself. I am sick and tired of feeling sad ALL DAMN DAY & NIGHT. I'll bet my ex is not even sad 20 minutes out of a day. Its like she is retarded. Incapable of analyzing or thinking about what went wrong. Or maybe she never loved me in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Smoove Posted December 12, 2003 Author Share Posted December 12, 2003 thanks 4 advice bro Link to post Share on other sites
CanadianBornCutie Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 I hear where you guys are coming from, however, i wouldn't go to the extremest hat they never loved your or they aren't feeling the same, I hurt and i cry sometimes and i miss my ex all the time, but i don't tell him cause HE broke up with me, i'm going to try to move on with my life, and when we do see each other I don't get all emotional and everything. So just cause they're not showing it doesn't mean they don't feel it. You broke up with them, and i bet that their hurting just as much as you are. I know i was but i wasn't going to show him because he broke up with me. Think about it, if i'm not sure if he wants to get back together and he broke up i'm not going to be the one chasing him. but best of luck! your hearts will heal......give them time, let yourself cool down.......and don't hold it against her or yourself that she doesnt want to talk to you........ she will intime..... Link to post Share on other sites
adamsb Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I'm heartbroken. She says she still loves me but had to break up with me. She's as happy as I've ever seen her and I can hardly make it through the day without having a breakdown. Link to post Share on other sites
Kanuk Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I know exatly how you feel. My ex broke up with me. And she's out partying now. When we were together, i only sw he ron weekends for the last month and a half, and i didn't even see her for 2 weeks the last time i saw her becasue she was so busy. Because she was so busy, she never saw her friends and now i'm gone and she's doen school fro the semester. She's out having the time of her life and partying. And i'm here wallowing in misery just like you. Even when i go out with my friends I only have a little beit fo fun if any at all. It makes you really wonder if the other person ever cared at all. But you can't think that way. Look back on everythig you shared and did. I look at the picture album she made for me, it must have taked days to make, it was engraved and everything. She made me clothes that surely tooka large amount of time, she said things and did things that make me KNOW that she loved me. She may be seaching for herself NOW, she may not know what she wants NOW, she may despise me for what i did to her NOW. But she did indeed love me before. And i hold on to the idea that the hate will die, and love springs eternal Link to post Share on other sites
mr_roggger Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Look back on everythig you shared and did. I hope that she does that for you too! That is most likely to have a very positive effect! I hope too that my ex looks back like that too! I did this last weekend, and surprisingly enough I was filled with happy emotions rather than sad ones about us not being together still! I still wish that we were still together obviously; hopefully when she goes home next she may look at some pictures or see some soft toys that I gave her and think back too! Link to post Share on other sites
CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 Yes its' the best, when i see my ex, when we hang out, we always look back on the times we did and he told me that those weren't a waste, i shared some of the best times with you, and everything. I know that he loves me, and what we had was awesome. No matter where we end up going, i know that the moments we shared will always have a part in my heart...... it's the best when you both know that....it makes things much easier....... "It was the best of times it was the worst of times...." The past was great, the present is okay, but no matter what happens the future will be the best Link to post Share on other sites
mfrmboy Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 My ex broke up with me and still wants to be friends. We were together for 7.5 yrs. We would get back together then he'd leave again! Then run back to the one he was with when we were apart! F*** him! I'd like nothing better than to stick a cattle prod up his ass! Trust me guy's there are others out there. I know it hurt's now but in time you will grow out of it! It helps me to think of the bad times and how selfish he was. That makes me feel better about the break up! You can make it on your own!! Go out enjoy your freedom!! Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 Originally posted by mfrmboy I'd like nothing better than to stick a cattle prod up his ass! Nothing like a good southern woman telling it like it is! I felt the same way afterwards....and a year later....I still DO!!!!!! It doesn't hurt so much anymore, from time to time I can even think of him in fond terms....usually though....I just remember what an ASS he was! Link to post Share on other sites
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