McGrupp Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 ugh. is there a worst feeling Link to post Share on other sites
Taucher Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 True, it's definitely a sh*tty feeling. For me, I can picture her having sex with someone new easier than I can picture her introducing her new man to her family, that really kills me. All the mundane, soppy stuff really gets to me. Her holding hands with someone, that kind of stuff. Instead of picturing your ex with another, try to picture yourself with another. T Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 that certainly ranks up there as a pretty crappy feeling...but to be honest, it doesn't hurt as much after a while...as time passes on, you gradually lose sense of your ex and who she was and who she is becoming... Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Instead of picturing your ex with another, try to picture yourself with another. T Or take it one step further and be with another...but baby steps... Link to post Share on other sites
Bulldozed Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 yes, definitely a nauseating feeling....i've actually gotten sick over it...USM is absolutely right though, it will pass...the thought of her introducing her new cheezy dude (who I know) to her family, especially over thanksgiving, where I've been there the past couple of years, is more painful. What must they think? here she is again, with yet another "soul mate"....trully pathetic....that's all I can say about her at this point....what's funnier is the guy is probably hung like a squirrel! Link to post Share on other sites
Author McGrupp Posted November 18, 2009 Author Share Posted November 18, 2009 ive been with 2 others. she doesnt care. i also have no idea if my ex is with another. just a matter of time though. but i feel real bad for those of you that know 100% they be banging someone else. ugh Link to post Share on other sites
Taucher Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 i feel real bad for those of you that know 100% they be banging someone else. ugh So true. And that is why NC is SO important. Ignorance is bliss. I am still hanging onto that ignorance and I hope I keep it. She can do what she wants, I just dont want to know about it. T Link to post Share on other sites
Bulldozed Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 just be strong MCG. Keep doing what your doing...you'll meet someone that'll spark your interest. I actually envy the fact that you're in your 20's....i turn 43 this coming Sunday...this weekend we were suppose to be in vegas w/my bro n- sister-n-law....where I was going to propose.... i just can't get over how easily this woman dismissed us, and didn't have the maturity to discuss issues together, but instead, would send text messages...i would always say, if you have more than 2 cents to discuss, let's meet or talk on the phone....texting this type of stuff is immature and unacceptable. that's basically how she managed our relationship the final 2 months.... Link to post Share on other sites
Dream Brother Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 It's a terrible feeling and only made worse if you should watch something one would call 'adult movies.' When the male star, with a penis the size of a waxed cricket bat is entering his chosen date for the day and she screams something akin to actually seeing God or his son with her eyes rapidly departing from the skull she was born with, one can only wonder if your departed lover is experiencing this as well - you look at pictures of them together and entertain the malignant thought that he might actually have a truncheon stuffed up his jeans because he has a big nose and ears and she is right at this moment being nailed silly and is as wet as a broken fridge. I don't know of any solution, do others? Link to post Share on other sites
Bulldozed Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 thanks for the visual DB....i definitely feel better now. lol Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Jesus Christ, that visual is just too much but hilarious. This **** sucks, as long as she is happy getting F*cked by an ugly mug who everyone that I have shown has laughed at him, then by all means have a loving relationship with that fag. Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
angelface78 Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Ive actually seen my ex w another...not pictured but seen w my own eyes!! I saw a pic of him w another girl 1 month after we broke up. If picturing someone is the worst feeling than actually seeing it is the most horrible thing u can imagine. i saw the pic on her myspace. It was for her bday and apparently he took her to a hotel to "celebrate." They were sitting by a hot tub and i could see balloons in the background. I cant explain the feeling i got when i saw this. It was like i was in the twilight zone. I felt like i was floating and my stomach just dropped. Stop picturing these things. If youre lucky enough not to have seen it...DONT PICTURE IT!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Bulldozed Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 I don't have to see it, it's going on just a mile from my house....i hope she catches an std from this scumbag! His wife left him for a reason....my ex's best friend, btw...maid of honor....she never got to hear her side of the story as she was too busy providing a shoulder for him to cry on when she bolted....he played that card to a "T"....he'll dump her soon...it's his rebound, and his first since the wife split..... Link to post Share on other sites
teanoranges Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 I think of it everyday still sadly, though it doesn't hurt as much anymore... its just sad to think of all the love he had going to her. He's feeling it all for her. He's looking in her eyes and thinking of her and loving her. I remember the way he was with me and get torn up, because I want that. I honestly didn't think it could be possible for him to feel that with someone else.... but he is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author McGrupp Posted November 18, 2009 Author Share Posted November 18, 2009 this is why i must remain NC. that **** would ruin me... Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Some people are so dumb, that they don't realize when they have it good. They cant comprehend that they have someone great for them, but yet they are soo stupid to realize it. I don't understand how people can be dumber than that. Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
jv032889 Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 I know she has a new lover. It hurts but I tried my best. Its quite funny how they are so in love after 3 months. her new lover doesnt know we slept together last month. Its so sad. Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 this is why i must remain NC. that **** would ruin me... What you don't know, can't hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
Ultiman Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 What you don't know, can't hurt. Complete bull****. My ex does not have to tell me anything for me to know that she is with someone else. Intelligence defeats ignorance Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Complete bull****. My ex does not have to tell me anything for me to know that she is with someone else. Intelligence defeats ignorance I don't know your story, sorry about that. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Some people are so dumb, that they don't realize when they have it good. They cant comprehend that they have someone great for them, but yet they are soo stupid to realize it. I don't understand how people can be dumber than that. Thebob Well, we just have to realize that it's their mistake to make...and yes, it often comes at our expense...but in the end, do we want someone who is so unappreciative of what they have...? Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Well, we just have to realize that it's their mistake to make...and yes, it often comes at our expense...but in the end, do we want someone who is so unappreciative of what they have...? Idk, I would like it for her to realize that she is a dumb*ss. But your right, We'll have to find someone who fits our needs, and hopefully it happens sooner than later. Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 Idk, I would like it for her to realize that she is a dumb*ss. But your right, We'll have to find someone who fits our needs, and hopefully it happens sooner than later. Thebob It's not just finding someone that fits our needs, but us deserving someone that realizes and appreciates what a bright light we were in their life...just like we felt they were the bright light in our life...you need to have that balance... Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 It's so hard to find that, I gave 100% to this girl, and it seemed that she gave me like 80%. I don't know what I did wrong, cause I honestly cant think of anything that I did wrong. I really want a girl that tries as hard as I do at the relationship. Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
TheLoneSock Posted November 18, 2009 Share Posted November 18, 2009 ugh. is there a worst feeling If/when I think of that, all I can say to myself is: poor schmuck. Link to post Share on other sites
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