User320 Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 so after my broken relationship i came to realize that during the course of it, i lost all my friends...now single...but just looking for a friend But hear is the problem...i look like a Jerk on the outside ( have been told this ) i have many tattoos , piercings ..and my features make me look like a snob ( been told this aswell ) also i have a very unique taste in music (at least for my area) I listen to Drum and Bass ( just Youtube it ) im lucky if i can find one person within 50 miles who likes the stuff even remotely , but id like to continue to be me, people think im just a hard headed jerk... but im the geekiest nerd on earth, i have a kind heart and would give my shirt off my back in the dead of winter if it meant to keep someone warm ( i have but it was a short walk to the car , so idunno if it counts ).... but i dont want to be shut-in my whole life... im 21 i hate bars... so that kinda screws my social life i suppose... what should i do? am i just an oddball? Link to post Share on other sites
jerseyboy Posted November 20, 2009 Share Posted November 20, 2009 Yes you are The piercings and large number of tats? For sure youre deviant with respect to what most of society views as normal. Not saying it in a mean way. Or to suggest there is something wrong with you. But its like watching some guy walk down the street dressed like an 80's Madonna and everyone politely pretending there is nothing to see here, nothing out of the ordinary. They do that for themselves not for you. Frankly I think its a pretty tough road youve chosen for yourself. Only you can decide if its worth it. But railing against the rest of the world because they dont understand or "get you" is a pretty large waste of time, however morally superior it may make you feel inside. Link to post Share on other sites
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