BeautifulMan Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I have known this woman for a relatively long time already but the problem is we met online. I always thought online relationships were bogus and pathetic but here I am today craving more and more of her. There's only so much time you can spend talking to someone strictly over the phone or through texts. Don't get me wrong, I love her personality and who she is... almost identical to me except warm and caring (that's a good thing). I'm lost on how to approach her and tell her that I have to meet her. She stuck around so I suppose she wants to meet also, but there hasn't been any serious conversation of it! I guess my main question is what is is the best way to begin talk of meeting each other in person for the first time?
Edward10 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Why don't you try calling her. She probably thinks you aren't interested. In a long-distance situation it is nearly impossible to understand what the other person is doing, since there is no day to day physical contact and conversations. And emails are a pretty sparse way to communicate. Things can be misinterpreted or said in anger and well you can imagine.
Maggs Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 How far apart are you and how difficult/easy would it be to meet up? Just tell her--you'd like to meet her sometime and ask her how she feels about that.
Rollercoasterr Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 That's not too awfully bad. Maybe you could find like a concert or event in her area and suggest that the two of you go together?? This would only work if you could get the time away from you job. That is, assuming you have one, of course. This way you could meet in a public place, AND have fun!!
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