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I recently broke it off with him (5 weeks ago) after an 8 month relationship. Long story short, he was too hot/cold and just couldn't commit the way I wanted him to. The fact that he finally agreed to breakup went to show that. The other week we ran into each and he reached out with a call. Not asking for me back or anything, just seeing how I was and saying he missed hanging out. I told him I was maybe reaching a point where I could talk/hangout as friends but it was too soon. Well now I agreed to see a movie with him tonight in about 30 mins - yes a huge mistake but I have to deal with it.

 

I think the strongest part of our relationship is that we were so connected as friends and I WANT that friendship, however, I realize the emotional side of me (my ego) could easily take over. OF COURSE I want him to see me and magically fall in love...but my logical side realizes that won't happen.

 

Not suprisingly now I'm all nervous. Should I cancel last minute or tough it up and go through with it? How does one act in this situation? I know there is no right answer, but if any of you have been through this I'd like to hear.

Thanks everyone!!

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