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My male friend hurt me very badly. We were very close friends for over 3 years. We haven't spoken in a year. We both moved on with life and went our own ways. It just hit me about a week ago, that this situation is still bugging me. I don't think about this situation all the time or anything, but when I do, it just makes me sad. I'm not even mad about it anymore, just confused. There were many reprecussions from this situation that I don't think he realizes. It changed my life in many ways. I haven't figured out yet how to work through this. I thought I was over it. I don't even know if my friend cares about the situation or not. Most people would say, it's not worth it so forget about it. It's not that easy. I've lost contact with friends and people before and not thought much about it. This is different. I don't know what the deal is. For whatever reason, my friend wouldn't really talk about anything, so it kind of felt unresolved. I think he felt embarrassed about the way things turned out. It just seemed that we should have had the chance to talk about things. I don't know why it came back all of a sudden. Typing it out here does help a little. I just need suggestions about resolving this for myself.

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