Gabriele Posted November 24, 2009 Share Posted November 24, 2009 BS who are looking to heal and make their marriage strong/healthy have you read any books that have helped with the healing process? The only one that I have liked so far was: HOW CAN I FORGIVE YOU - the courage to forgive, the freedom not to. BY Janice Abrahms Spring I read a few that really talked about how the bs was just desperate to keep the ws and the ws was not sure if they wanted to stay, those did not appeal to me at all. thanks, Gabriele Link to post Share on other sites
foreal Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 hi Gabriel Not sure how far out from Dday you are...but here are my suggestions: Transcending Post-infidelity Stress Disorder (PISD): The Six Stages of Healing by D. Ortman and a book by the author you mentioned: After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful and Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass i hope these help. Link to post Share on other sites
65tr6 Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 the books I read acted like IC in my case...lol 1) 5 love languages - stunner ! 2) how one of you can bring the two of you together - stunner ! (probably my favourite) 3) 5 languages of apology - stunner ! 4) surviving an affair - great book 5) His Needs Her Needs - great book several more cant remember right now OP, do you have any kids ? I read a few good books on parenting as well. Link to post Share on other sites
HUFI Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 Affairs - A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity by Emily M. Brown Affairs - Emergency Tactics by Carol L. Rhodes; Someset Publishing After the Affair - Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms Spring How Can I Forgive You? - The Courage to Forgive, The Freedom Not To by Janis Abrahms Spring, How to Save Your Marriage from an Affair - Seven Steps to Rebuilding a Broken Trust by Ronnie Edell The Myth of Greener Grass - by J. Allan Petersen Not "Just Friends" - Protect Your Relationship From Infidelity And Heal The Trauma Of Betrayal by Shirley P. Glass Repairing Your Marriage After His Affair - A Woman's guide to Hope and Healing by Marcella Bakur Weiner Secret Lovers - Affairs Happen, How to Cope by Luann Linquist Surviving an Affair - by Willard F., Jr. Harley, Jennifer Harley Chalmers Surviving Infidelity - Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain by Rona Subotnik Getting Past the Affair – Douglas Snyder The 5 love Languages – Gary Chapman The 5 languages of Apology - Chapman Link to post Share on other sites
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