Jerry18 Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 I don't get how to find get a date in college. The girls at my school seem too busy to even think about getting B/F. What kind of clubs should I join? I'm in the finance club and all the girls think about are money... I'm a business major but I hate business major girls. They'd only date you if: 1. You drive a BMW/Audi. 2. You're a president of a club and will give them nice VP positions. 3. Extremely hot. I'm none of the above... The only other classes I have are math. I'm so frustrated! How did you find a date in college?
Nightsky Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 I didn't but with the knowledge I now have it would be a piece of cake.
quankanne Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 join groups you've got an interest in; meeting chicks will develop from that. Same thing with getting involved in a hobby – you find people with same interests, and the potential of finding dating material increases. as for the chicks who are after material things and status ... well, in my day it was the chickies who chased after the Navy flyboys because of their status and i thought they were shallow for treating these guys like possessions to acquire. Some of the guys were actually pretty cool, and i felt sorry for them for having to deal with these women.
Author Jerry18 Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) I didn't but with the knowledge I now have it would be a piece of cake. Can you please share some of that knowledge? join groups you've got an interest in; meeting chicks will develop from that. Same thing with getting involved in a hobby – you find people with same interests, and the potential of finding dating material increases. Ok. Now that I find someone I'm interested in... then what do I do? Edited November 25, 2009 by Jerry18
quankanne Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 get to know her, and build up to when you ask her out.
Nightsky Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 College is definitely a good place to meet women although I never did. The reason I was able to get dates and girlfriends after college is because I became more confident. The truth is women love confidence and for me that confidence came with age. Worrying about meeting women is the exact unconfident mindset that will keep you from connecting with them on a real level. My advice is enjoy college and learn who you are and be happy with that. Being successful in things is a good way to become confident but in reality it’s just a mindset. With confidence in yourself the situation you currently find yourself in will be no more.
Ornithes Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Find a girl that works for food service. They're usually poor and looking for a mildly financially stable guy to date and eventually marry. Myself included.
GorillaTheater Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Find a girl that works for food service. They're usually poor and looking for a mildly financially stable guy to date and eventually marry. Myself included. I was going to suggest something like this, too. I was married in college and did quite a bit of time waiting tables. There were alot of good-looking, friendly females there (90% college students), and the opportunites were endless even though I wasn't available.
Author Jerry18 Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 Find a girl that works for food service. They're usually poor and looking for a mildly financially stable guy to date and eventually marry. Myself included. I don't want to give money to other people. So how will dating me help their financial goals? But that is a good suggestion. On the other hand, I'm not even close to being the richest person at my school...
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