ladymistique Posted November 26, 2009 Share Posted November 26, 2009 Hi fellow LSers, I haven't posted in awhile but I though I would check in. Nearly five months since the break up and I have to reassure you guys that I am just about over it. Don't want to celebrate prematurely because we all know how these things go . We will all reach this point at varying times and in varying degrees BUT you will eventually see that this person was not the one for you if they disrespected you, cheated on you, left you unceremoniously and without good cause and so on. You will see your life improving without them and you will see yourself improving as well. You will find other people attractive and you will want to get to know them. Some of us will date, some of us will wait at this juncture but you will get your groove back...... despite of them, not because of them. So be good to yourselves and understand your self-worth so that the next person who wants to get next to you will not have to deal with your baggage of the past. Happy healing! Link to post Share on other sites
sean1970 Posted November 26, 2009 Share Posted November 26, 2009 You will see your life improving without them and you will see yourself improving as well. From your lips to God's ears... Link to post Share on other sites
kizik Posted November 26, 2009 Share Posted November 26, 2009 Hi fellow LSers, I haven't posted in awhile but I though I would check in. Nearly five months since the break up and I have to reassure you guys that I am just about over it. Don't want to celebrate prematurely because we all know how these things go . We will all reach this point at varying times and in varying degrees BUT you will eventually see that this person was not the one for you if they disrespected you, cheated on you, left you unceremoniously and without good cause and so on. You will see your life improving without them and you will see yourself improving as well. You will find other people attractive and you will want to get to know them. Some of us will date, some of us will wait at this juncture but you will get your groove back...... despite of them, not because of them. So be good to yourselves and understand your self-worth so that the next person who wants to get next to you will not have to deal with your baggage of the past. Happy healing! Great post, it should give all hope. It is not easy - one must work to improve and get over the loss of a person (which is actually more difficult, IMO, than the death of a loved one). But we all have the strength, reserve, courage and perseverance to put our selfish pain aside and get on with life, with or without that supposedly amazing ex. I realized the other day that my ex never tried to get ahold of me once after the breakup. Good riddance! To me, it just signifies a lack of insight into her behavior as well as a lack of regret for the disrespectful ways by which she treated me. When someone never even tries to say sorry, it's a good harbinger of a lack of moral fortitude. Happy Thanksgiving. Link to post Share on other sites
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