AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 I was going through my husband’s face book today (which I hardly ever check) and there were some pictures that bothered me. The more I look at them the more mad and hurt I get….do you think I’m over reacting? Would these bother you if this was your husband? Aaron and I go out with friends and are touchy feely and affectionate with people we know but who are these girls…. I’m driving myself crazy here, tell me what you think please! Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Disturbing. I stumbled onto a few similar pics of my stbxh before Dday that were on his cell phone. After Dday, he told me he had a facebook account and let me have a look, lots of women were messaging him, kinda flirty and there was no mention of me, anywhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Spoiled Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 The last photo would definitely bother me, too close! Do you have access to his account or were you snooping? If you do, he probably has nothing to hide. Did you ask him about the photos? If so, what was his response? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 The last photo would definitely bother me, too close! Do you have access to his account or were you snooping? If you do, he probably has nothing to hide. Did you ask him about the photos? If so, what was his response? We're facebook friends, I don't have his password or anything but it's not like he was hiding them from me.... I was going to talk to him when he gets home tonight but I don't know... I'm honestly just surprised that I'm so bothered by them! Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Disturbing. I stumbled onto a few similar pics of my stbxh before Dday that were on his cell phone. After Dday, he told me he had a facebook account and let me have a look, lots of women were messaging him, kinda flirty and there was no mention of me, anywhere. Jeez that is my worst nightmare....what did he say about it? Link to post Share on other sites
adiaz Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 First of, your husband is very handsome. The last pic would bother me a little. But what would hurt me is my MARRIED husband putting up pics of him with other women on his facebook without me being in the pic. Somehow, to me, it's like saying look, I am unattached, get at me. Link to post Share on other sites
Susmay Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 I was going through my husband’s face book today (which I hardly ever check) and there were some pictures that bothered me. The more I look at them the more mad and hurt I get….do you think I’m over reacting? Would these bother you if this was your husband? Aaron and I go out with friends and are touchy feely and affectionate with people we know but who are these girls…. I’m driving myself crazy here, tell me what you think please! Just wondering who is Ona Dudley? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Just wondering who is Ona Dudley? That's my real name...where did you see that? Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 That's my real name...where did you see that? It is in the URL and you might want to have this thread deleted ASAP to have it removed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 It is in the URL and you might want to have this thread deleted ASAP to have it removed. Why? Did I do something wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
Mini-Me Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Ona, where is his wedding ring? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 It is in the URL and you might want to have this thread deleted ASAP to have it removed. Ona, where is his wedding ring? We don’t wear rings all the time, it doesn’t surprise me he doesn’t have it on. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Why? Did I do something wrong? No, not at all. But it is for your own protection to have your identity divulged along with personal photos if you desire anonymity. Also, regarding the pictures, do you have any idea who these women are and in what context the photos were taken? That would be a huge question for me... Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnnaG Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 No, not at all. But it is for your own protection to have your identity divulged along with personal photos if you desire anonymity. Also, regarding the pictures, do you have any idea who these women are and in what context the photos were taken? That would be a huge question for me... Ooh I see, thanks. I’ll delete it in a little while. Thanks for the heads up. The first two I have no idea really when or why they were taken, however the last one I know the girl and I’ve always disliked her, I know she likes Aaron. I was at that party, somewhere, but I definitely wasn’t around when that was taken…. I just don’t want to jump to conclusions but I also don’t want to be naïve. Link to post Share on other sites
oxfordsocks Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 the first two pictures or ok-yes the last one is over the line---i am not sure why he would post them-unless he is trying to make it very public and non secretive so you wont'"suspect " anything However that said do you know where these pictures were taken from what event? why were you not there at those events? I am not one to talk about other people being respectful but I THINK those pictures do disrespect the privacy of your marriage-the closeness of a partner etcc... Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Jeez that is my worst nightmare....what did he say about it? He said it was all innocent. I don't think young, attractive women should have sat on my husband's lap but he let them do it! A good buddy, of both of ours, snapped the pics. Link to post Share on other sites
1Angel Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 He is a very good looking man. Yes those pictures are out of line. Not wearing the ring is red flag too. Link to post Share on other sites
Malenfant Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 i dont know what kind of social lives people on here generally have, but all i know is that where i come fron as soon as a camera comes out and two people are stood there talking, they immediately put their arms round each other to pose for a picture. if these are friends, i dont see any problem here, it just looks like people posing for pics. if a person looks a bit uncomfortable, like say, they were caught with their arm round someone, the pictures would look totally different. girls like to sidle up to guys in pics, they like putting them up on their walls on FB etc. i understand how you are feeling, but IMO i dont really see any need for suspicion based on these pics alone. if there is other behaviour that makes you sus then thats a different matter. to the other posters: if neither of them wear their rings all the time, how can OP be annoyed that he's not wearing his? really its a better idea for them to both wear them all the time, but you guys shouldnt be bringing up stuff that OP is happy about to make it look more dodgy, talk about planting seeds in her mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Malenfant Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Ooh I see, thanks. I’ll delete it in a little while. Thanks for the heads up. The first two I have no idea really when or why they were taken, however the last one I know the girl and I’ve always disliked her, I know she likes Aaron. I was at that party, somewhere, but I definitely wasn’t around when that was taken…. I just don’t want to jump to conclusions but I also don’t want to be naïve. i totally understand this! unfortunately if you have an attractive man there will always be women out there wanting to get a piece. its very, very annoying, but its true. the only way round that is to be with a very unattractive person! it comes down to trust between you and your H. My H works with a few women, and i know he's attractive. most of his workmates are on his FB including the girls, but I dont have any worries there at all. i trust him implicitly, and I know that even if anyone did try it on with him he wouldnt be interested. as long as you know that then you're OK. if you're not sure, well... thats a different story Link to post Share on other sites
TerryW Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 No I don't think the pics are totally out of line so I wouldn't throw a mad fit but I would talk to him about how they make you feel. (Disrespected) Link to post Share on other sites
angie2443 Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 These pictures seem funny to me. It looks like he either rounded up some hot women to take a picture of himself with, or, the women wanted a pic with him because he was a mini celeb or something. Is he? Anyway, he does look good. I don't know if the pics are anything to be worried about, but they do give off an image of him as this hot guy who hangs with the hot chics. If he was single, I'd guess he has a lot of girlfriends. I just thought of something else- does he have simular pics of him with other men? Link to post Share on other sites
Onwards Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 The OP has posted a link with her real name (which she said she would delete but hasn't) and then proceeds to share her husbands first name for no good reason....which identifies him as a Hollywood actor? Ummm....yeah. Link to post Share on other sites
angie2443 Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 There is an actor called Aaron Dudley. I think this thread is a joke. I must admit that the pics made me laugh though. Link to post Share on other sites
Heroic Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Pictures of hot women hanging on your husband and he doesn't wear a wedding ring.....do you have to even ask? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 There is an actor called Aaron Dudley. I think this thread is a joke. I must admit that the pics made me laugh though. The gal in the last pic is Ona Grauer, Aaron Dudley's wife. Link to post Share on other sites
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