LexiB Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 if you bounce an email back to someone - without responding - wouldn't that work? essentially you're just sending back the original message she wrote untouched and unchanged... what would be so wrong with that? is it weird? That's actually even ruder than simply not replying at all. At least w/ not replying they can think you somehow didn't get the message. Bouncing it back would show them that you looked at it, saw it was from them, and said f*** you. Link to post Share on other sites
Oh Moe Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 It would depend on the circumstances of the break-up. I have Ex.'s from 15 years ago I still keep in contact with. Yet there's one the last time she contacted me got an earful that I couldn't put on here because of the way the break up happened the fact she was the largest BS'er in the world. Till this day when I come across her she nearly cries when we see each other, I hope her pain lasts the rest of her life. Sad part is she was and is still the one I love/loved the most. Yea I'm still a little angry all these years later.LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Brightmoon Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Sad part is she was and is still the one I love/loved the most. Yea I'm still a little angry all these years later.LOL If she was the love of your life OM, is it too late to make a go of it? Link to post Share on other sites
Oh Moe Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I have given it series thought many times!!!!! She has effected every relationship I've tried since her, she could be out of my head for weeks and I'll be with someone else and her head pops up. Try that when your with someone else. She is in a relationship with someone else (doesn't love him, still loves me. Her words) She says she doesn't need love in her life. Only a bed fellow I guess. She refuses to see me alone anyplace. I now have cut her off she continually contacted me after some of the nasty but true things I told her. The most important thing in a relationship for me is Honesty and she broke that and knows it. This women was always happy as hell when we were together, now you see on the street and she looks like she's going to cry. We are both very stubborn. If she was the love of your life OM, is it too late to make a go of it? Link to post Share on other sites
bluestraps Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Break it buddy !! Link to post Share on other sites
TuesGirl Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 DenverBachelor You are NOT kidding. Here I am on LS, seeking 'help' and solace getting over my latest break-up, and I get a text message from my ex-fiance, who cheated on me Nov '05, that says 'I miss you'. WTH?? Like I am not already reeling from my current situation (and would feel pretty good if HE wrote those words...). To be fair, I have always had LC with my ex-fiance bc we had a house to sell and I actually had lunch with him and his new girlfriend this summer when they moved out of state (read: I had/have NO feelings for him beyond a small friendship), but THIS text is very out ofthe blue. He knows nothing of my current relationship ills. So yea...I guess 'they' come back and yea, 'they' always remember you... Kind of tired of ol Murphy's Law btw... Link to post Share on other sites
Author DenverBachelor Posted December 10, 2009 Author Share Posted December 10, 2009 DenverBachelor You are NOT kidding. Here I am on LS, seeking 'help' and solace getting over my latest break-up, and I get a text message from my ex-fiance, who cheated on me Nov '05, that says 'I miss you'. WTH?? Like I am not already reeling from my current situation (and would feel pretty good if HE wrote those words...). To be fair, I have always had LC with my ex-fiance bc we had a house to sell and I actually had lunch with him and his new girlfriend this summer when they moved out of state (read: I had/have NO feelings for him beyond a small friendship), but THIS text is very out ofthe blue. He knows nothing of my current relationship ills. So yea...I guess 'they' come back and yea, 'they' always remember you... Kind of tired of ol Murphy's Law btw... That is a good point and worthy of a new post by me. However, just to update you on my ex-ex-ex e-mailing me, we had a good exchange of e-mails and she was very heartfelt and said that she felt a very special connection to me. Out of all my ex's, though, she is probably the one I felt the most fondest towards years after the breakup. She technically broke up with me, although my behaviour and actions suggested I didn't want a long-distance relationship at the time. I am very happy she wrote me and I hope we can be life-long friends. She's a very good person and has a huge heart. I'm very proud of her and all that she has done over the years. It feels good to know that someone you deeply cared about and left on basically good terms still thinks of you from time to time and has done such amazing things. Life! Link to post Share on other sites
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