Sweetlady Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 I have been out of a relationship for about four months. I thought I would soon get back with this boy because I really wanted to be with him but, I got tired of waiting so I found somebody else. I really like this new person, he is not like my old boyfriend. I think he is much sweeter. Now my ex-boyfriend wants me back. He said he is willing to change his ways for me and he didnt realize what he had until he lost it. I still have alittle feelings for him but I have new feelings for my new boyfriend. I havent been in the relationship long enough for me to really be in love with my new boyfriend. I am sooooooo confused. Link to post Share on other sites
CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 Though i still see my ex we have an understanding that we can see other people, but when i mention that i might go out with someone he kinda gets freaked out. now i haven't met a new boyfriend but i have been out on dates, and yeah some of these guys are the sweetest thing, but i know i'm not ready for anything serious or committted cause i'm not sure where my heart or my head is, so I would say be honest with this new boy and say you want to take it slow, get to know him as a friend, and ya know just be honest with him and say that you just need time to figure things out. Now for your ex, yes i've been in that situation, the minute you start seeing someone else they get all freaked out. But yeah i hear ya i still love my old b/f to death, it is confusing, but my best advice don't make any promises to anyone and be true to yourself, i know that there wasn't really an answer to this, because i think only you know the answer... Give this new guy a chance....... Think back on why you broke up in the first place but it is a difficult situation, i'd take some time for yourself and think alot..... best of luck i hope this helped....kindof? Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 Do you trust your ex-boyfriend enough to know that you will have a good relationship with him this time? No-one knows what the future holds for them, so there is no sure answer to anything. If you are even considering dating the ex again.....then in all fairness to the new boyfriend you should end things with him. It's not fair to date one person while you are thinking of another. Make sure to "date" the ex-boyfriend to give him a chance but be sure not to be overly available to him. Take your time and think things over. A list of positives and negatives is usually a good help to me. Good Luck! Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
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