northstar1 Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 Facebook is for people with too much time or their hands, or attention wh*res. that's it. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 Change your status to 'single' on facebook and stop nagging him about what he isn't doing. Instead of trying to make someone change their behavior and discussing it over and over again with them, one discussion is enough. After that, make an exit. He doesn't respect you and the more you nag him and the more you stay with him, the less reason he has to respect you. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 Facebook is for people with too much time or their hands, or attention wh*res. that's it. I used to think that but because I only see my friends and family a limited amount of time, I get a kick out of seeing posts from my son in college, or his gf, or whatever. You don't have to be on it all the time. It's just a neat way to stay connected when you can't see everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 And this is the reason I don't have Facebook. Complete waste of time. To me, the issue isn't about facebook, it's about his total lack of respect for her, and her inability to see that when a man doesn't willingly show her respect, she needs to leave - not nag. Link to post Share on other sites
Author crackerjax9 Posted December 3, 2009 Author Share Posted December 3, 2009 To me, the issue isn't about facebook, it's about his total lack of respect for her, and her inability to see that when a man doesn't willingly show her respect, she needs to leave - not nag. exactly. i dumped him. put up with that a year ago & the guy was cheating on me the whole time. i was in a rush when posting this sorry about the spelling errors. Link to post Share on other sites
Pizzaman81 Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 weve been dating for almost 6 months...ive asked him to take single out of his profile several times and he just makes up excuses or tells me hes going to do it and then never does...why? is this a red flag? I usually not even have a status. Here's the reason why. If we were to break up, i have to reset it, then comes in the flood of comments. I like to keep that private and you'll just have to trust me that I don't go wooing other girls. But keeping status as SINGLE is misleading. Link to post Share on other sites
Author crackerjax9 Posted December 9, 2009 Author Share Posted December 9, 2009 see i would have been fine with that, but now its gotten so blown up that i feel so disrespected, so hurt, so rejected by the fact that he wouldnt put me on facebook when i AM his girlfriend. he promised me to change it this weekend. we spent the weekend together. he told me friday he would do it, then pushed it to saturday, then monday...did it get done? no. im twice as hurt. twice as pissed off. i dont get it!! Link to post Share on other sites
chelseyjealousy Posted December 12, 2009 Share Posted December 12, 2009 omgggg i had this problem for like a week.... with mine where i complained tooooo him about doing it and he complained he did not know howw... i will never know if he did or not it does not matter..... on facebook you can go in your profile.... and click that your in a relationshipp... and then there is a space... to type the persons name... well do that and it should send a request to that person... to accept or deny if he denies it DOOO NOT CONFRONT HIM lol just do it again and again and pretty soon he will just accept it... it only took twice for mine tooo and now its up there for all to see Link to post Share on other sites
HeartBroken700 Posted December 13, 2009 Share Posted December 13, 2009 I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, He also wouldnt add me. we were having some trouble in our realtionship. well i went and created a fake facebook added a preety pic of my cousin and sure enough it said single and i think he was cheating on me with this girl and there was messages and stuff.i still spy on him. i still check and i seen the messages they were very hurtful and i told him and of course he said i was over reacting. well he wouldnt add me i had to do it somehow and the way i did made me hurt and upset like i dont even exsict in facebook.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author crackerjax9 Posted December 11, 2012 Author Share Posted December 11, 2012 Just looked back on my old threads and laughed at this one. Amazing how much clearer you can see once you step outside of a ****ty manipulative relationship. He cheated on me with 12 different women. Wish I knew all this earlier so I could have spent my college career single. But now I'm happy and in a healthy relationship Just thought I'd let you know the outcome of this. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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