Jerry18 Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 I'm a guy and you're a girl. I have your MSN, cell #, and see you in school... Just curious, I want to see what's the worst that can happen if I bug a girl about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 She calls you a stalker.. tells her friends.. gossip circle goes into overdrive.. you're labeled the creepy stalker or pathetic loser for the remainder of school. Or you will eventually wear her down where she goes out with you just to shut you up.. consider it a pity date and a free meal for her. OR she will fall for your advances in a fairy tale fugue declare her love for you after the 6th time you asked her out. You tell me which is more likely. Remember.. there is a difference between playing hard to get and just not being interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Pizzaman81 Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 You will continue to persist until another girl comes your way that you are interested and you will forget that the first one even existed. Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Inside Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 If I was the girl in this situation I would tell you..."hey so as to not mislead you here, I am not playing hard to get, I am just not interested...so thanks, but no thanks." If you tried again after that I would say..."do not ever contact me again." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jerry18 Posted December 1, 2009 Author Share Posted December 1, 2009 She calls you a stalker.. tells her friends.. gossip circle goes into overdrive.. you're labeled the creepy stalker or pathetic loser for the remainder of school. This isn't a strong deterrent because I don't think people would actually believe her. I'm not going to write her an email or letter so what proof does she have that I actually asked her out 10 times? I mean if she says that I'll just blame her for spreading rumours and stuff. And say, I don't even like her so I don't know why she's flattering herself with those lies. If you tried again after that I would say..."do not ever contact me again." What if I call you again? What are you going to do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
rateyes Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 personally if itold you once, then a second time and you still try, id tell my friends about it, and my friends are rather talkative, youd end up outcoast status...dont be dumb, if she says no once dont pursue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jerry18 Posted December 1, 2009 Author Share Posted December 1, 2009 personally if itold you once, then a second time and you still try, id tell my friends about it, and my friends are rather talkative, youd end up outcoast status...dont be dumb, if she says no once dont pursue. I don't understand why the school would believe her friends. If I tell my friends that she's a slut, that doesn't mean the school will think she is one. I don't understand why people would believe I ask her out so many times... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Just curious, I want to see what's the worst that can happen if I bug a girl about it. I guess the worst is the fact that you lose all self respect for yourself and become a somewhat of a beggar. If she turned you down then the best thing you could do is accept it.. then go put your time into another girl. Any other option will only end in her getting more forcefull with the turndown. In the end.. it won't work and you will look pretty bad.. and possibly mess up any other chance you might get with another girl on campus.. The grapevine can be a fast and mean thing... Link to post Share on other sites
rateyes Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 I don't understand why the school would believe her friends. If I tell my friends that she's a slut, that doesn't mean the school will think she is one. I don't understand why people would believe I ask her out so many times... there are certain thing, and certain people that can cause a massive outbreak of gossip at a school. If someone is popular and liked by alot of people, if they say something itll be taken as truth. IF the girl is any shade of popular youll be outcasted by atleast a few groups of people. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross PK Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 Well, I'm being totally honest here, this is in no way intended to offend, but... I'm not sure what the worst is, but at the least she'll get really annoyed, will end up not liking you at all, and you'll have made yourself look like a creepy weirdo. Link to post Share on other sites
sotighttonight Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 (edited) I don't understand why the school would believe her friends. If I tell my friends that she's a slut, that doesn't mean the school will think she is one. I don't understand why people would believe I ask her out so many times... are you serious? its high school. i remind you that even things that aren't true spread like wildfire calling her a slut is not an equivalent example. saying she slept with a teacher well, will most definitely have people gossiping (assuming you have some degree of credibility and are good at lying). its worse here because her story is highly believable and she wouldn't really have any reason to lie - the real question is why the school shouldn't believe her and her friends. oh and the more you ask her out, the more of a pussy and stalker you become to everyone Edited December 3, 2009 by sotighttonight Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 If we were already friends or acquaintances I'd say no, but would try to set you up with someone who would appreciate what you have to offer. If I didn't know you at all or only a very little I'd probably make the 'no' a little firmer, and then steer clear of you after that. Link to post Share on other sites
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