chocolate_boy Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Hi people! Just a quick one, this probably aint the best forum for this post, but nearest I guess. Basically an ex gfriend who I was v close to but we broke up over a year ago now, has been back in touch after about 6 months of no contact. I've been out with another girl since then, but now I live in a new city and am single again. Anyway a few weeks back out of the blue this ex from a year ago sms me her new mobile number and then we exchange a text messages. She asks for my address and sends me a letter, fine, always nice to hear from old friends (as we were also best friends through most of university). We didn't really part on very good terms, she's with a guy she got with about 6 weeks after we broke up, living with him now but she says they're not getting on very well, but trying to work through it. She also told me to write back to her at her parents address as she doesn't want him to find out we've been in touch. Anyway, it seems a bit sus to me, I could do without any problems in my life or causing her any really. Anyway every few days she sms me and now wants to meet up with me one day soon... last time we even spoke was back in about May... I did try to ask why (without being rude) she just said cos she hasn't seen me for ages, and wants to meet up and go for a meal at a place we went on one of our very first dates a few years ago... It would be nice to see her again, to be honest I have no intentions of trying to get back with her, my feelings for her faded quite some time ago (it was me who ended the relationship too). I'm also seeing someone else very casually... just been out on a couple of dates that's about it, but not really wanting a relationship at the moment anyway, enjoying freedom and friends more. Does this meeting-up seem dodgy to anyone? Obviously I'm sure she will be lying to her current boyfriend about where she is going if she drives to meet me. I'm pretty much up for it out of curiousity, but I wonder what spurred her to contact me after all this time and want to meet up now... Thanks guys C Link to post Share on other sites
mr_roggger Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 Possibly because she's not getting on very well with her current partner and that re-kindled feelings for you? Maybe she wants to fall back onto you? Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted December 16, 2003 Share Posted December 16, 2003 I definitely agree with mr rogger. I often feel lonely when I am either single or in a relationship that is not working, and although I would not want to meet up with ex's, I would be more open/willing to contact or talk to them. Link to post Share on other sites
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