selena_cat Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 "No Contact" is the magic pill! Nothing can do the things it can do. Not only does it give you a clearer picture of your ex who has absolutely no respect for you; it also allows you to gain back your on self respect. Stop fighting "No Contact" and let the magic pill work. Once you regain your self respect you will be amazed that you ever let someone treat you so badly. It is time to man-up and push her to the curb! Let her go and be someone else's nightmare. Brother you deserve to be with someone who appreciates and loves you. However, the biggest lesson learned from all this is that it is very important to put yourself and your feelings first. When people see that you truly value yourself, your integrity and dignity they will have no choice but to respect you. Excellent reply RM! we all here need a jolt why we should go and stay on NC. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 Sometimes it IS the right thing to send them a letter, depends on the people and the situation. I sent my ex letter a few weeks after we split, he left as I neglected him the last 2 years (18 years together) and there were things I wanted to say. But I would never write a begging letter or an angry letter. Bro, Youre making me nervous . I have been writing letters in order to get a final one writen to send to my ex. are you telling me I should not sent it to her ? I also want to tell her how I feel.Your situation sound like mine. My ex cheated on me 4 times, in 10 years. You should now leave her alone .Maybe ina year she come back . She needs to beg you to taker her back. Thats what Im going to do I dont want you or I to become a door mat . Link to post Share on other sites
Reading Machine Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 Drop her like a bad transmission. Respect yourself. If she comes back be prepared to tell her your not interested and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DenverBachelor Posted December 4, 2009 Author Share Posted December 4, 2009 If she comes back ... The chances of that happening are 1 divided by every atom in the universe. Link to post Share on other sites
bluestraps Posted December 5, 2009 Share Posted December 5, 2009 I go back and forth ..don't sent it, send it, send it ,wait don't send it . Its not even done yet (8th draft) Link to post Share on other sites
selena_cat Posted December 5, 2009 Share Posted December 5, 2009 Blue, take the drafted letter and toss it in the cat's litter box. Link to post Share on other sites
kickintheaz Posted December 5, 2009 Share Posted December 5, 2009 "No Contact" is the magic pill! Nothing can do the things it can do. Not only does it give you a clearer picture of your ex who has absolutely no respect for you; it also allows you to gain back your on self respect. Stop fighting "No Contact" and let the magic pill work. Once you regain your self respect you will be amazed that you ever let someone treat you so badly. It is time to man-up and push her to the curb! Let her go and be someone else's nightmare. Brother you deserve to be with someone who appreciates and loves you. However, the biggest lesson learned from all this is that it is very important to put yourself and your feelings first. When people see that you truly value yourself, your integrity and dignity they will have no choice but to respect you. I was thinking I'd txt the x and came on here for a reminder why I shouldn't, found RMs post above.. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!.. this one's being framed!! I think this sums up everything in how we should all deal with our respective situations.. And DB, ya seem to be healing, regardless of why that is transpiring, WELL DONE!.. Link to post Share on other sites
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