TheLoneSock Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 That's your problem too. Tough life around here. All these boys with very difficult problems.... I was agreeing with you. Maybe that is a problem... Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 i'm rolling over laughing....actually it screams you are lacking confidence. if you ask me, only insecure people feel the need to advertise themselves half nude And do you know what going around berating every single person on this site from thread to thread denotes? It denotes mental stability issues combined with an acute affliction of Micropenis. Link to post Share on other sites
Lost-n-confused Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 The one with the plane is my least favorite. To me it like standing next to an expensive car trying to show off your money. Some girl messaged me asking about my plane. I explained that I rent the plane and don't own it. Never heard from her again. Guess she realized that I'm not rich. Link to post Share on other sites
dudet Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I was agreeing with you. Maybe that is a problem... oh i should have known, thought you actually were disagreeing with her pic...what a joke lmao, that figures Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Dude.. I wish you the best of luck and you know damn well I've been giving you advice... So if you wanna take some... take this.. Drop the shirtless pic.. you look like a damn tool... He'll keep it. It's getting him some action. Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I was agreeing with you. Maybe that is a problem... Oh I am so so sorry I thought you had said something else. I apologize and thanks for what you actually meant! Link to post Share on other sites
dudet Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 And do you know what going around berating every single person on this site from thread to thread denotes? It denotes mental stability issues combined with an acute affliction of Micropenis. funny thing is I always found the ones who advertise their bodies to be the most mentally unstable creatures Link to post Share on other sites
Lost-n-confused Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Here is my old photo. http://pictures.match.com/pictures/30/65/74673065A.jpeg No one messaged me. Link to post Share on other sites
CLC2008 Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 It's not a contradiction when this isn't a dating site. Agreed, this is not a dating site. Moving along... Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 The one with the plane is my least favorite. To me it like standing next to an expensive car trying to show off your money. Some girl messaged me asking about my plane. I explained that I rent the plane and don't own it. Never heard from her again. Guess she realized that I'm not rich. Then quit asking for advice. You don't take it. You have no experience and yet you refuse to listen to anyone but what you think. Link to post Share on other sites
InspiredbyYou Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 funny thing is I always found the ones who advertise their bodies to be the most mentally unstable creatures that explains why you come across like a boob. Link to post Share on other sites
dudet Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Here is my old photo. http://pictures.match.com/pictures/30/65/74673065A.jpeg No one messaged me. you are not exactly unattractive, but you know what. would you want to date a girl who messages you just because they see you topless? does that not make you wonder what type of girl they could be? or maybe you want that type:confused: Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Here is my old photo. http://pictures.match.com/pictures/30/65/74673065A.jpeg No one messaged me. There is nothing exciting about this picture. It just says "hey here I am waiting". The plane picture (not that you'll listen here) shows your interests. Big deal the girl didn't message you back, you weeded out a gold digger (if that was in fact the reason). I wonder if perhaps there's more to how you converse with girls, which might be the problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 That's your problem too. Tough life around here. All these boys with very difficult problems.... They are learning.. give them time. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 you are not exactly unattractive, but you know what. would you want to date a girl who messages you just because they see you topless? does that not make you wonder what type of girl they could be? or maybe you want that type:confused: Thats assuming he wants to date her... maybe he just wants to "dip his toe in the pool" before settling on who's to jump into. Link to post Share on other sites
deux ex machina Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I find the pictures of shirtless men intimidating (on a dating site). One woman's opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Yup I'm dead serious. Women want a guy who is confident. Whats more confident then a guy who's not afraid to take his shirt off in public (going to catch flak for that). Every hot girl in the gym is always following around some muscular guy. Lets face it, online dating is people who want sex. I want a relationship and sex. You know I'm a virgin and trying to give my V-card up. If I can get a small relationship with a good looking girl and get laid and it falls apart o well that's dating. Check out my profile. Tell me what photo you think should be my primary photo? http://www.plentyoffish.com/member16316312.htm I personally like the jet ski one...it shows you are having fun, you like doing things....and you are obviously fit without bragging you have abs! Nice arms btw. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 It appears that Lost's main focus is to get laid. So the bare chested pic suits his purposes. The attention he receives, jives with what he's portraying. But that's exactly what many of the women in this thread are saying. If a woman is looking for a relationship, she'll pass on a profile with a topless man. Now most men, if they saw a bikini or lingerie pic they liked, whether they're looking for a relationship or not, will be drawn and most likely will message the girl. If a man can get laid with a hottie, that's all that counts. If she proves to be unstable, some will move on, others will stick around for the sex, if it's good. Welcome to the difference between men and women, hence why many men judge women by how they, themselves, personally think. Link to post Share on other sites
thegreatmoose Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Now most men, if they saw a bikini or lingerie pic they liked, whether they're looking for a relationship or not, will be drawn and most likely will message the girl. If a man can get laid with a hottie, that's all that counts. If she proves to be unstable, some will move on, others will stick around for the sex, if it's good. Welcome to the difference between men and women, hence why many men judge women by how they, themselves, personally think. I don't think that's true for most men. Maybe it is for young men, but not men in general. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 It appears that Lost's main focus is to get laid. So the bare chested pic suits his purposes. The attention he receives, jives with what he's portraying. . I agree with this. Yet he has asked and asked for advice on getting a girl he can have a relationship with. Link to post Share on other sites
dudet Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 There is nothing exciting about this picture. It just says "hey here I am waiting". The plane picture (not that you'll listen here) shows your interests. Big deal the girl didn't message you back, you weeded out a gold digger (if that was in fact the reason). I wonder if perhaps there's more to how you converse with girls, which might be the problem. there is nothing wrong with his pic.,that's a normal picture.....and i thought normally guys are the ones who usually contact girls on the sites. lost, are you sitting around waiting for women to contact you first? Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 there is nothing wrong with his pic.,that's a normal picture.....and i thought normally guys are the ones who usually contact girls on the sites. lost, are you sitting around waiting for women to contact you first? It's normal, sure, but he's got other pictures that stand out more. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I don't think that's true for most men. Maybe it is for young men, but not men in general.You'll find that a subset of older men are no different than their younger counterparties. But I agree that this is less likely with 40+ year old men, than younger. I agree with this. Yet he has asked and asked for advice on getting a girl he can have a relationship with.Perhaps his definition of relationship is different than what you and I are talking about. Perhaps a relationship equals sex to him, rather than an investment. Link to post Share on other sites
CLC2008 Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 I agree with this. Yet he has asked and asked for advice on getting a girl he can have a relationship with. Well that would then make him a liar, right? Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Perhaps his definition of relationship is different than what you and I are talking about. Perhaps a relationship equals sex to him, rather than an investment. Well he said in other threads he doesn't want to have just a sex buddy.. or at least I thought that's what he said. From what I got out of his previous threads is he wanted a real relationship. Not just sex. He wanted the investment. But that's just how I understood it. I could be wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
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