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About a month ago a close friend of mine broke up with her bf, two days before she broke up with him she asked me to give her space so I did. After nearly two weeks since she asked me to give her space I saw her at the pub and was just keeping to myself and watching sport on the tv at the pub and when I looked away from the tv and looked around I caught her glancing over at me. She did this quite a few times on that night and then she approached me and told me that she hadn't seen me for awhile and asked how I was and when she was talking to me she had her hand on my arm.

 

Since that night whenever I'm at the pub and when she's there too I've been noticing that she keeps staring over at me and when I look back he smiles and then later on she comes up to me and hugs me and talks to me. I just feel kinda creeped out by it but the thing is I like her alot and am getting these weird signals from her.

 

One night I was talking to someone that I know about something I had listened to on talkback radio and when I looked up I noticed that the girl was looking over at me. The night after I was at the pub and she was too and I was there too and she had one of her sisters there too and when I went inside to go to the bar to get a drink she was heading back to the table where her friends and sister were at and she stopped me and hugged me. Later on during that night she introduced me to her sister that was there visiting the area and the night after that I got dressed up in a suite and she was at the pub and when she saw me she gave me a big hug and called me a studmuffin and later that night a friend of mine caught her staring at me while I was walking and then he saw that while she was staring at me she wasn't really noticing her friends trying to talk to her.

 

Also this past Friday she was at the pub again same things happened like before and before I left to go home because the pub was closing she asked me if I'd be out again on the next night which was last night. So last night I went out again she was there too her and I hugged and she did the staring thing again but after the pub closed things went all weird. I headed up to the pizza shop thought of buying something but changed my mind stared walking back home and ran into my friend and she was heading to the pizza shop and when I saw her I gave her a hug and when I hugged her she said that it was cute that I hugged her and asked me if I was going to get a pizza. So I decided to walk to the pizza shop with her and her and I talked and just kept glancing at each other and I just headed home after getting my pizza and gave her a hug goodnight.

 

What does this all mean and why did she ask me if I was going to get a pizza when I was obviously heading in the opposite direction to the pizza shop?

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What do you want from the situation? That will help us give some better advice. Where do you want to see this girl in your life?

 

On the surface, it sounds like she's into you in a puppy dog way. But at the same time, it could just be for your attention since she lost her bf. Its tough to say. Which is why it comes down to what you want. In the time that you've known her, has she always been this shy or at least kind of a follower?

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Well, the simple answer is either you got a giant booger hanging out of your nose or.........she likes you, duh. She may want some space or time or whatever but an inch too much of that and she'll have a new boyfriend so get moving.

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