werty Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 pls help.. this jst happnd today... my gf has decided to stop the relationship... som1 told her dat i have bin telling every1 about me & my GF's secrects that were supposed to be kept secrect between us only..., which i knw i didnt do it.. but she was convinced i share it with every1 & whatever i did,she just have to let go of me before i could get to say anything else.. i was some sort of a "kiss & tell" person whch i didnt understand.. pls help me, i never did it & i swear i never told anything... and she just cat trust me even if how much i try to convice her dat i rili didnt do it.... pls wat can i do? she returned to me the necklace i gave her on our first month-sarry, but i declined it.. was it even a good decicion? pls any help suggestions would do... i tried to talk to her before the day ended.. she still believes i did it coz there was no other way that person could know if no one told him.. i dont knw who this person is, nor she want me to know who it is. all she did was to believe in it and didnt even bother to ask me or get my opinion about it if it was true or not.. she said that she lost her respect for me coz i cant be trusted.. when in fact i should be the one mad coz she believe some1 else... i dont know if i should go and try to talk about it again.. i already told her i am only here to tell the truth, and that is i never said or told anything and thats the truth of wat i did.. this is very hard for me, coz i know i didnt do anything... btw, i think i would hve a hard time talking to her.her friends ere helping her to hide herself when i went there. i was only able to talk to her coz she tought i was gone but i was only waiting for her to come out... i didnt really do anything.. i dont knw wats the reason that person said it, but im sure i cant even tell our secrets to any1.. shes hurting me more this way.. i am her BF and didnt even bother askin me about it... she jst told me let this be the end,which was the hardest part for me coz i dont knw where i would stand.. *.. do i have to go ad try to talk to er again? or should i let the issue cool down before i try to talk to er again? any help or suggestion to try would do... all i could think of right now is to not bother her but im afraid i might lose her more this way or she might think i am guilty coz i didnt contacted her?... pls help me wat i should do... should i really try again & convice her? or is it that wat i told her is already enuf... i love her sooo much & i have only loved her most... i can never do that to her... pls wat should i do.. i dont wana lose her just also a question, why was she hiding? or trying to hide from me? Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 Accept the necklace back. Work on your spelling. Don't follow this young girl around anymore. You've already "lost" her. Link to post Share on other sites
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