really bored Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 alright ladies, is there a line for your guy friends that seperates smothering and just a good guy. What are some things to avoid so that i dont seem like im overbearing? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Trixie49 Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 Well, I think it depends on whether you like the girl as more than a friend or not. If you are just interested in being friends, then it's pretty easy, I think. Just make sure you give her space and don't interfere in her relationships. Just do what's natural and if you feel like you are being smothering, then that may be a clue that you like her for more than a friend! Link to post Share on other sites
Author really bored Posted December 18, 2003 Author Share Posted December 18, 2003 ok first of all i do like as more than just a friend, but i waited to long to say anything about it and now another guy is going out with her- so since i dont ahve many other friends i just want to be a good friend - i am happy that she has found someone that she is interested in and he's a good guy and very lucky to have found a girl like her. we used to hang out a lot and then i guess i feel like she doesnt want me around as much - maybe its because i am sending out a vibe of wanting to be with her - anyway im just a little confused thats all Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 Pick either friend or love, and pursue it. If you won't she will, and it will be too late. Link to post Share on other sites
Author really bored Posted December 18, 2003 Author Share Posted December 18, 2003 well i did pick it, i want to be her friend because she is with someone new, i just dont want her to feel like i am smothering her, what are some things i should avoid? Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted December 30, 2003 Share Posted December 30, 2003 Originally posted by dyermaker Pick either friend or love, and pursue it. If you won't she will, and it will be too late. Question... would you still offer this advice if the pronouns were reversed? In other words, if the initial poster were female? Link to post Share on other sites
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