my ex-girlfriend

[myles0909]

My girlfriend just broke up with me because she says I was taking things too fast for her. She's only 15 and I figured shes at the stage in her life were she's not ready for a serious relationship as I am. Also, she doesnt want to be stuck on one boy friend.

 

Do you think, if I let her go and do her thing, that later on somewhere down the road, she will let us start over? I really miss her alot and hate that we broke up!

[dyermaker]

How old are you?

[AeroSpace08]

OK, I know how most of you guys feel. I'm 23, my ex and I broke up a four year relationship little over a year ago for reasons I'm still trying to figure out. Last I heard of her, she had a new boyfriend, and was in love with him. Possibly she will marry him, who knows? Anyways, I was in and out of relationships with other girls, and still searching for what could be my perfect match. But, what I learned after our relationship is that new things DO happen, you Do meet new people, and you can have a great life with out your ex. I mean you will always think of your first love, even til death may it be. But, I chose to learn off those past experiences that I had with my ex, and used those to look for something better in the future. Thats what is all about. YOU. not your ex, in any way possible make your self happy. True, I was in a depression for maybe six month after our break up, but you'll soon realixe that things do get better. You may ask should I still keep in contact with her? I say no, why? Because it will just spark up bad memories about the past, and you will feel all depressed while she is living the vida loca. Think of it this way, if you do keep in touch alls you will be is friends, or just messing around. And where will that lead you, to being more unhappy than you were already were.

 

This doesn't apply to everybody, some people have been back together with ex, and yeah they me be happy. but for the others, just think about it. I learned that your life does go on.