Boundary Problem Posted December 11, 2009 Share Posted December 11, 2009 What does it mean when someone is spying on you? Like the next day they seem to have known what you did the day before and you have no friends in common. It is an ex-boyfriend from a long time ago. It is annoying me, and I'm thinking of staging something. If he wants to watch, I figure, better give him something to watch. Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted December 11, 2009 Share Posted December 11, 2009 or, you can catch him following you then lodge a complaint with the police. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted December 11, 2009 Share Posted December 11, 2009 It means he's looking at your Facebook page. Link to post Share on other sites
meadowlark Posted December 13, 2009 Share Posted December 13, 2009 I had a girl from my past sort of drop into my life out of the blue when I was married. She had recently gotten a divorce, and I was occupied with school, work, husband and new baby so I didn't read much into it. Then she started turning up places where I was, all the time. I would notice her in public places quite close to me, or she would call me and quiz me about things that she shouldn't know about. I started to suspect something was wrong when I told my husband and he acted kind of suspicious. It turns out, yes, she was following me but unfortunately I never told the police. She was also screwing around with my husband and really looking to mess up my life (which eventually ended up happening.) Listen to your guts. Bottom line, if someone is messing with you, following you, etc. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. My biggest regret is not cutting her off at the pass before things got out of control. People that have taken steps to follow you are STALKING you. It doesn't take much from there to get violent or worse. Contact the police. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted December 13, 2009 Share Posted December 13, 2009 What does it mean when someone is spying on you? Like the next day they seem to have known what you did the day before and you have no friends in common. It is an ex-boyfriend from a long time ago. It is annoying me, and I'm thinking of staging something. If he wants to watch, I figure, better give him something to watch. They're checking on you or observing you over a period of time, I guess. If you think they are spying on you, your best bet is to get confirmation and report it to the authorities. Link to post Share on other sites
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