loveblues Posted December 11, 2009 Share Posted December 11, 2009 Ok, hi everyone. I'm also wondering as many of you, what could happen next, and just wanting some other guys/girls different perspective. (help) here goes: I'm in my early 20's my now Ex is 31. (this wasn't an issue) we only dated for over 2 months and a half. short but lovely romance..It was great, he was good to me and vice versa, everything was ok, until the break-up. Over something so small as an argument gone really bad, and two hard heads who can't commit yet. He contact me recently on Oct 25th, and it was the so called "Hey how you doing" typa talk.. (I didnt understand what it meant because when I've broken-up in the past they never called me back) And so I thought I could ask that question of, Why are you calling me? when I was the one who broke us up, even though he wanted too. But I couldn't ask it didnt come out, I can tell you we were both nervous and enjoying the conversation, but in the end nothing happened. He didnt even say we were going to remain friends, & I was relieved because I would never want that. This what ill never take from any men after a relationship, a friendship. As time has passed he calls me once a week, the last time we spoke on Dec 1st It would've been our 5th month anniversary, He told me to call him once a while, don't be a stranger. I was unsure of what it meant, but I still agreed. The other stuff he's told me already like twice, its been that he doesn't care about the past anymore, it's just the present and future important to him. He said it again last time we spoke. So Im thinking since he never again has mentioned about our break-up or none of our relationship, does it really mean he would never consider us together as a couple we once were? **I mean has anybody who's really broken-up have gotten back together, If yes, where are you guys I need some advise! >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> __________________ Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted December 11, 2009 Share Posted December 11, 2009 ...He told me to call him once a while, don't be a stranger. The other stuff he's told me already like twice, its been that he doesn't care about the past anymore, it's just the present and future important to him. LB, Those things can be interpreted in different ways. Why not just say something like, "I don't know how you want me to interpret that"? Or ask, "Can you help me interpret that, please?" If you don't take responsibility for getting clarification on stuff you're unsure of...well, then you are NEVER going to find out, are you? Are you at all interested in exploring the possibility of a reconciliation? Link to post Share on other sites
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