neely Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 I have a big problem.....i have known this girl for about a year....we got very close on a friendship level.....but the thing is....is that i have fell for her on more of an intimate level.....(not physical).....we both have this connection that we have never have had before....she sleeps in my bed, but nothing happens, we have had talks about this before......because she isnt looking for a relationship, like i am..... the problem also is today i am gonna tell her exactly how i feel....about taking it to the next level.....but i am scared of losing what we have now.....she shows me signs that we have the same feelings...its just weird....its driving me crazy.....i look into the future and i cant see myself without this person......in any way......helpppppppp Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 Close friends and you sleep in the same bed? But nothing physical. Sheesh, I just don't understand you young'ns. Anyhow, whatever you do, do it in a way where you both could pull back without major damage if it doesn't work out. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted December 18, 2003 Share Posted December 18, 2003 If she says no to taking it to the next level, can you honestly still be friends with her? If the answer is NO, then you still need to talk to her about it and be prepared to lose her -- know that you will both be better off and happier in the long run. If the answer is Yes, you can still be friends, then you need to make her really understand that or she may feel uncomfortable around you. If the answer is Yes - then be really casual about suggesting you level-up your friendship to relationship status. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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