sunkist_baby17 Posted December 13, 2009 Share Posted December 13, 2009 I was divorced a year ago, and have moved on with a wonderful man. I love him so deeply, but I can't stop talking to my ex-husband. I tell my ex lies all the time about how I am moving back home and want to be with him, but want nothing more than to stay where I am and be happy. I don't know why I still talk to him and I need to fix things with my new boyfriend but am unsure how to start. I have come clean about all of my affairs and have admitted all the lies to my ex in hopes to gain some sort of starting point. I have broken any trust I have received from my boyfriend and am deeply afraid of losing him. Link to post Share on other sites
EcstasyX6 Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 You are a confused woman. You state that you've admitted all your lies to your ex, but you admit to still lying to him now. It seems that you have regrets and guilt about leaving your ex-husband. I'm sure the divorce caused him lots of pain and leading him on now is not right. You made the decision to move on with your life and you should do so. Who knows what he's going through? Maybe a therapist can help you weed through all your guilt and issues because you are only carrying baggage that will damage your current relationship,if it hasn't already, which quite frankly you don't seem committed to or ready for. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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