Confused728 Posted December 15, 2009 Share Posted December 15, 2009 Does drug use denial sound like this? these are exact qoutes from my ex who i have long suspected of doing drugs, he says our relationship came to end cause i didnt trust him i say it was because of drugs ..."fact is your the one that hasnt changed u cant turst me to know that i dont need that crap n certainly dont need u constantly accusing me of doing it, its so insulting" "fact is ur the only one i pushed away just u becuase of this crap im still close with my family and freinds, pay my bills and get to both jobs on time and sleep good n workout" "u like to belive that its all me wanna or have been doin drugs or what not so u can think that u r absolutly perfect but ur so wrong u have no idea "dont expect a call from me either u called me a junkie, insult me, and degrade my name to people instead of talkin to me who the hell r u to judge anyone?" cause i was laid off he said this... "i work even all those junkies u hate all work" On me suposubly calling him a junkie "You did say i needed help thats what i did past two months n thtas all i did when i went away, ive had time to think about it im insulted and offended" "u call all of them junkies and say im doin the same sh*t thats calling me a junkie" On me talking about his freinds and dealer freinds "thats not takin their side, u dont go around tellin people sh*t like that and ill tell u why had it been someone more hardcore u woulda been in a world of sh*t people get killed for dimin people out theyre called rats. Do you even relize what can happen for calling people out like that" "and if thats not bad enough ur going around getting me involved talkin to peeps about me having them think im a coke head then saying i need help u dont know me at all" "u have no idea who i am what i am u make me out to be a weak shallow junkie u try to pull my dignity from me but i aint gonna let u" "I said what i wanted to say so didnt u when u accused me of drugging that did it for me" "there no more working things out ur never gonna trust me i want someone that wont keep draggin my past to me and rubbing it in my face ur not that person im sorry to say" on him going to bathroom with three other guys few years ago, trying to get an admision "I didnt do it why would i admit to somthing i didnt do just to please u, im not giving u the satisfaction i dont care if u think i did it or not there was not even a drop in there" On drug dealer callign him "year u called it it was wrong number"---i never asked the person if he called the wrong number i foudn out it was a drug dealer no the wrong number so he lying about me ever saying it was wrong number On reason we broke up "truth is i needed a break from you but u refused to belive it so ur reasonin waz to go n tell everyone im a junkie" "i did hang out wiht them a couple of times so what not as much as u think i did" "the problem is you acusing me of doing it then tellin the world that im an addict" "thats cause ur the one wit the issue not me.. ur telling peeps that im on coke thats f***ked Up and ur lucky i have stuck up for you" "u called me an addict thats that u just accused me of doin it in the barthroom u said i need help u told peeps i did it in the bathroom im done stickin up for u" "btw i talked to people too they think ur f**ked up the way u keep brining up my past how u dont trust me u know what they say F**CK THAT LOL, I still stuck up for u N this is family, close freinds even neighbor lol i still stood up for you" "its true n ur the one playin mind games ur actually trying to convince myself im a druggie u want me to admit something i aint u are F**Cked up" On getting him to admit that he did coke in bathroom before "prob is that u got me in a corner cause i say i ant then im in denial, if i say yes u say i told u so lol who mind F**King who?" "your wrong about me but guess we dont have to worry about that anymore" "lol you think i got short comings? HAHA" "Infact ur the one tryign to mind F**k Me, exactly what ur doing to me" "i got two great jobs that i show up in time for, house, dog, family, n freinds, espically my nephue i got alot to lose n dont need u Sh**tin on my name" "I aint perfect no will i ever b but i ant stupid either or weak" "u just called me a junkie n said i have a prob ur one judgemental Bast**d" aint you? oh no i swore there goes my guilty conscience" "everyone knows my past but ur the only personthat uses it against me saying ill never change" on me saying that he was using gaslighting and defense mechanisms to cover up "thx dr phil what time does church start, u oh was that not the right reaction or was that a defense mechanisim?" Link to post Share on other sites
trail_blazers_7 Posted January 9, 2010 Share Posted January 9, 2010 well i wouldn't say any of those things... and i'ma drug userr Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confused728 Posted June 15, 2010 Author Share Posted June 15, 2010 wow havent read this since i posted it! does anyone have any new thoughts on this? Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted June 15, 2010 Share Posted June 15, 2010 wow havent read this since i posted it! does anyone have any new thoughts on this? Yeah, you have too much time on your hands. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confused728 Posted July 8, 2010 Author Share Posted July 8, 2010 khush.. what do you use. what would u do if the person u dated asked u to stop hanging around with friends who do drugs. how would u react if someone told u u had a problem? Link to post Share on other sites
GK71 Posted August 28, 2010 Share Posted August 28, 2010 (edited) post What drug/drugs do you suspect him of using? khush.. what do you use. what would u do if the person u dated asked u to stop hanging around with friends who do drugs. how would u react if someone told u u had a problem? I drink a lot and do coke. And I'm going back to college so I don't have to work in the bar industry and be around alcohol and constant drinking, and my girlfriend has gotten upset at the amount I drink before, since it lead to me cheating on her. Now, I'm just 100% honest with her about my drinking, who I'm talking to, who I'm hanging out with, and its helped things immensely. As far as the coke, she doesn't like me doing it at all, but I try my hardest to keep it strictly recreational and keep it so it doesn't interfere with our relationship. If she told me tomorrow that I had to stop or she was leaving me, I'd stop in a heartbeat. --GK Edited August 28, 2010 by GK71 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confused728 Posted August 29, 2010 Author Share Posted August 29, 2010 GK here is my full story.. be great if u read the whole thread lol i know there is alot but it covers alot of ground http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t206477/ Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted August 29, 2010 Share Posted August 29, 2010 It's been a long time since I posted my above remark and I'm sorry it was so flippant. I still don't get all of those situational comments. Drug use denial is more typically "I'm just going to do it one last time" (which never fulfills the dream of what the one last time should be), people who seem to have no money and then tell you "I have so many bills or debts" (yeah, that's part of the screwed up priorities), "I can use crack once in a while" (no one who gets a real hit doesn't want another just like it pronto), "I only snort it, I don't shoot it" (like one's pleasure centers in the brain don't spill their contents any way) etc etc etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Confused728 Posted August 29, 2010 Author Share Posted August 29, 2010 feeling.. lol read the other post i linked here there are alot more details in it... He has told me he has done it in the past but not anymore.. he got calls from a drug addict allowed his freinds to do it in his home. had lots of bills and debt and has a good payin job and works two jobs but some how can end up having no money.. only thing is he looks like a normal person and not the sterotypical drug addict with teeth falling out and stuff.. and only a few weeks ago before i stoped talking to him again.. we started talking threw text only.. then i stoped it... he was away with his freinds that do drugs and he was going to a party with them one who is a visble drug addict and is a mess.. why should i think all of them do it but he doesnt? Link to post Share on other sites
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