sarahrosex Posted December 15, 2009 Share Posted December 15, 2009 My boyfriend and I have been together for well over a year - met through mutual friends, etc etc. We are both 20. Anyway, he's away for three months to work on a resort over summer - it's been one month so far. And I am finding it so hard. I dont know why. He has no cell phone reception so I dont hear from him, and I only really get one maybe two emails a week. I understand he is busy, and I do completely trust him but honestly this is the hardest thing I have done. I know I only have two months to go, but right now it feels like forever and not even being able to tell him how miserable I'm feeling makes it feel so much worse. I just miss him so much, and I constantely am thinking of him. Link to post Share on other sites
billy356 Posted December 17, 2009 Share Posted December 17, 2009 Sara, it is completely natural what you are feeling. You have been with a person for an entire year and then that person leaves and you dont hear from them. The lack of contact and communication is what is driving you nuts. You have no way to feel connected to this person and without that feeling your connection starts to fade. You need to find a way to get a hold of him, tell him that this lack of communication is really really hard on you and if there is any solution you guys can figure out. Do it the old fashioned way and write actual letters to each other. Look at it this way, if you guys ever get married those letters would be worth their weight in gold to both of you. Hang in there, find a way to communicate and everything will work out just fine! Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted December 17, 2009 Share Posted December 17, 2009 My boyfriend and I have been together for well over a year - met through mutual friends, etc etc. We are both 20. Anyway, he's away for three months to work on a resort over summer - it's been one month so far. And I am finding it so hard. I dont know why. He has no cell phone reception so I dont hear from him, and I only really get one maybe two emails a week. I understand he is busy, and I do completely trust him but honestly this is the hardest thing I have done. I know I only have two months to go, but right now it feels like forever and not even being able to tell him how miserable I'm feeling makes it feel so much worse. I just miss him so much, and I constantely am thinking of him. How is he using email to contact you? I.E where is the computer he uses located? Link to post Share on other sites
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