iwanabehis Posted December 19, 2003 Share Posted December 19, 2003 [font=arial][/font][color=indigo][/color] Ok heres my problem: I began going to a new church about six to seven months ago and saw this gorgeous guy there. i found out his name and practically everything i need to know about him (im a pretty good stalker haha ) and i really really like him. he always leaves church early so i dont get to catch him. and if he doesnt leave early i dont know how to approach him. My friend and i did notice him looking at me a couple times and everytime i would look back at him he would look away. hehe yea i know its kind of childish, but i havent been thinking about anyone but this one guy for six months already and its driving me crazy. Hes a pretty shy guy (but im pretty shy myself) so i want to try to come up to him and strike a conversation but it would be kind of strange to randomly come up to him after not doing so for six months. Please i need all the advice i can get. Thanks alot! Link to post Share on other sites
Author iwanabehis Posted December 19, 2003 Author Share Posted December 19, 2003 [color=black][/color][font=arial][/font]How should i approach him? Any ideas? Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted December 19, 2003 Share Posted December 19, 2003 but it would be kind of strange to randomly come up to him after not doing so for six months. It's either strange now, or will continue to be strange in seven, eight, nine months... Do you see what I'm getting @? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted December 19, 2003 Share Posted December 19, 2003 Um.. Ever just think about going upto him and saying 'HI' and asking how he is doing? Just strike up some conversion about something, etc.. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 19, 2003 Share Posted December 19, 2003 or just say "Hey i see we have something in common...... we both worship the same God" and take it from there..... Link to post Share on other sites
SportyChick7 Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 Just relax! I had the same thing happen to me! If you hang around where he is long enough and he doesnt strike up a convo with u, just as a polite gesture, then naw i wouldnt go for it. Try and smile or when u pastor says to shake hands with someone u havent seen in a while, go shake his and say 'Hi, my name is ...." Don't stress! Im not saying this is it, but sometimes, we make people out to be better than they really are, and the feeling get greater every SUnday we dont talk to them. By the time u meet him, u might realize u dont really like him, he's just a far fantasy that you now caught, and its not so mysertious anymore! Link to post Share on other sites
Author iwanabehis Posted December 25, 2003 Author Share Posted December 25, 2003 Hey thanks for all the advice!! Link to post Share on other sites
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