Chickensh*t

[Confused4Now]

I always believed love was an action, NOT a PROMISE TO ACT. I think my purest, most selfless love is for my children.

 

If the ship was sinking, I;d ensure they were on the lifeboast first.

 

I think love is about putting someone else first in your heart, forever. And while at times, you may be disappointed by their actions, their actions should match their promises.

 

I think if they loved you and wanted to be with you, they would construct a realistic timeline and move heaven and earth to be with you.

 

It happens every day.

 

So if they don't, it is all excuses, or "lies, lies, and more damndable lies."

 

And if it is not lies, then it really is Chickensh*t that can go on for years!

 

And if you did wind up being together, would it have been worth it? Or would you live in fear that their waffling and cowardice, or at the very least, their conflict avoidance would infuse and affect the relationship negatively?

 

Be cause it could. It really could. Who wants to be anyone's default choice, fercryingoutloud! It is certainly not a position of strength on which to build a relationship, IMHO.

 

I would never want anyone who didn't want me down to the very marrow of their bones. Relationships are too hard, for waffling in any way, shape or form.

Wow...this is sounds so much what GEL would say....but I have to agree with everything on this post.

[White Flower]

youre funny

Never as funny as you my funny friend.

[81West]

I HATE having this knowledge now, from experience.. I am a very positive guy, but heck, I feel SO jaded now thinking of what people can do to each other...

 

bah humbug

 

That's the biggest hangover I have from my experience - the cynicism and sense of futility about relationships. Three (3!) years ago now. It sucks.

[Trimmer]

just wake up one day and say to yourself "today i am not gonna sleep with someone else's spouse"

Ideally, one would say that every day...