Why do exes enjoy throwing crumbs?

[meonly]

SHE TREATED ME LIKE **** AND I WILL TRY TO CALL HER ?

BET U I WONT ! CHANCES OF HER CALLING ME ARE VERY SLIM SO IM MOVING ON ! SHE DOESNT DESERVE MY LOVE ! I KNOW IM A GOOD MAN,NEVER LOST RESPECT TOWARDS HER EVEN AFTER THE BREAK UP !

SHE CAN NOW ENJOY HER NEW DUDE FULLY WHITOUT ME INTERFERING WITH IT ! I JUST HOPE IN THE NEAR FUTURE SHE WILL BE HURT AS MUCH AS I WAS ! I DONT OWE HER ANYTHING ! SHE CAN ALWAYS THINK TO SWEEP HER LOVE FOR ME UNDER A CARPET AND THINK IT WILL GO AWAY !

WHILE IM HEALING,SHE IN NEUTRAL AND IT WILL CATCH HER SOON OR LATER ! SO YES I AM PISSED,SO SCRE* HER ! IM GETTING OVER IT AND STARTING TO FEEL BETTER.I KNOW I CANT BE REPLACED,WE ARE ALL UNIQUE ! I TAKE IT DAY BY DAY AND THE SUN IS STARTING TO SHINE AGAIN FOR ME !

[selena_cat]

Very well said Summerlady,

many times i have to get it in my head that i'll never be a priority,hope it sticks so i wont make HIm one.

 

Meonly,and all, i posted a thread on Coping from this cool website i subscribe to that deals with crumb throwing unavailable exes,its dealing

 

It says "resist he urge to contact your ex,during holidays" hope that helps

[meonly]

Man I am really struggling with this currently... 3 months now since she broke up with me but she talks about getting married/living together/etc.

 

I don't get it . I want to be with her, but I don't know what to do... She seems so close to wanting to date again and I don't know how to maximize my chances!!

 

What a roller coaster.

*** shes playing with you ! ignore that stupid women ! Seems like she enjoys torturing you ! Its up to you to put an end to it ! Let her crawl back,i know she will keep on trying to reach you,looks like she having so much fun !!! Treat her the same way and see if she likes it ! good luck

[meonly]

very well said summerlady,

many times i have to get it in my head that i'll never be a priority,hope it sticks so i wont make him one.

 

Meonly,and all, i posted a thread on coping from this cool website i subscribe to that deals with crumb throwing unavailable exes,its dealing

 

it says "resist he urge to contact your ex,during holidays" hope that helps

ty selena

[sunrae]

Craziness... The throwing crumbs thing made a lot of sence to me.

 

My ex did the "I need time" thing, and maybe he does, who knows.. I've done the whole NC things for the last six weeks. And He brings me a Christmas gift in my office right before Christmas... Nice gesture, but I would rather him have taken me out to dinner than to buy me a gift certificate to my favorite place.... Now another week and I havent heard a peep from him.... So confusing...