bolase Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 ANy advice for just stopping myself? Its been 6 months while we broke up (he didnt even break up with me, just pulled away by text and email while I was overseas for a little while, "I cant see you so I don't know whether I love you" stuff which really got to me that, he'd be such a p****) - instead he was getting together with a mututal friend at home. I tried NC but kept breaking down and finding excuses to contact him...so since August we've been back working in the same building (his new girl works here too), which has been tough but made me a much stronger girl..! Now though, with christmas break around the corner weve been emailing heaps and he keeps being way too nice - not flirting, just flooding them with smilies and wishing me well, wording everything perfectly and pretending to ask and care for my friends who aren't his biggest fans. Even though we're not friends and I dont like him as a person after seeing how he could be, Im snowed under and a little bit lonely, and couldnt help myself but send him a link or 2 here or there, then we got chatting. Now even though I KNOW its for the best, I get pissed off (isnt that meant to be stage 1?!) at the way he treats me which is so fake...I should just stop it now. but can't:( His last email says he'll be away for all of summer Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 protect yourself honey. Withdraw. Have dignaty and strength and ignore his e.mails delete them before opening. I wonder what his present GF would make of the fact he is contacting you????? You know yourself that NC or LC is the way to go. Get dolled up, look your best and get out!!!!! Bit of lippy, tight dress, high heels...........here come the the girls! seriously you should make it happen right now. NO MORE CONTACT. Move onwards and upwards. xx Link to post Share on other sites
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