NickP Posted December 22, 2009 Share Posted December 22, 2009 hey! any sorta opinion is appreciated! i've been going out with her for 6 months now. having started in june, we were in the same country for the entire summer, n spent our first 3 month anniversaries together. after the 3rd anniversary, i left to study abroad, whilst she worked back in our home country. things were great, we maintained the "intimacy" thru our conversations on fone. however, there were a couple of huge arguments when we were apart, n these were more easily sparked off and harder to "rectify" because of the distance when we were away. i sent her flowers on our 4th month anniversaries, but didnt' for the 5th, cos i wanted the 6th to be special. the 6mth anniversary came, n we were still apart so we decided to do some'in together when i got back to our home country. now im home, it's been 1 week, but we havent talked about the 6 month anniversary. im leaving for studies again in 3 weeks, n we had a fight the day after i got back. things got bad, n it seems to have created a bigger rift between us. today she said that maybe we shldnt get as "intimate" as we did a few months ago, until we're ready again. but i leave in 3 weeks... is this a sign that things are coming to a slow end? do i jump out now? i wanna try, but m just too "tired" to do so. i need to rekindle the fire we had 3 months ago, but she doesn't seem to want to, tho she says her feelings hasn changed. shld i trust her? in the fight that we had the day after i got back, it was over something rly stupid, n she did mention in that fight that she felt 'stuck' ... thanks. out. nick Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted December 23, 2009 Share Posted December 23, 2009 You do realize that you're freaking out over a MONTH anniversary. Why not send her a note or a card and save the big stuff for the one year anniversary. I never understood why people get so worked up over month anniversarys. Sure, I mention it to him. We say happy 16th month anniversary, but that's it. Celebrating every little thing is...so high school to me. Are you in high school?? Don't make an issue out of this. Link to post Share on other sites
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