LovelyDaze Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 By December 2010, I KNOW I will be over my ex. Since I plan on taking a long break from dating to spend some quality "me" time, I may be just getting back into the dating scene. I also know my ex will try to call since he has already proved that several times before. I am pretty sure that I won't even respond. My new adage will be to not go backwards...keep moving forward! Where do you think you'll be, as far as your breakup goes? Link to post Share on other sites
TheBritishGuy Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 In exactly one year at this time hopefully in bed. Seriously though I'm not sure at the moment I want to do a 3 to 6 month tour of California late 2010. On the dating scene with the amount of work and travelling coming up next year I don't plan to dabble in the relationship game at all next year. I think I am going to exclusively focus on "me time" and maybe make some attractive lady friends on my visit which should be interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
tiredofit Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 AS i was walking my dog less than an hour ago I was wondering that to myself . I will not be in the same situation as now. And over the next few days I'm going to think of what steps I need to take. For tonight , I'm going to wrap some presents (alone with my dog) and get up early to see my loved ones back home . Let me take this chance to tell everyone here Merry Christmas and to enjoy the day tomorrow. Smile, next year is going to be a good one! Link to post Share on other sites
kimmi Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 Well I just figured that I am over the ex... and happy... i thought that this holiday would be sad however it is amazing!! I have booked the trips that i have always wanted to take. I have started to make amends with all the people that I have ignored due to the relationship and no one liking him. I have took off 7 months to do things on myself so I am starting the new year off with a date and going to continue now that I know what I really want in life. Link to post Share on other sites
Kantor Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 Where do you think you'll be, as far as your breakup goes? Where do I think i'll be? Well.. I had better be moved on by then! If I still waste all this energy and emotion on a person who won't even respond to a simple message... geez I'll need someone to hit me with some reality. Where do I want to be? Well.. Its been two months, and while I created this monster... I also want to be the one to fix it. So do I still want her back, yes - I do. However, I am also a realist and am doubtful this is going to happen. Hope doesn't just die, its a dying process. Takes time... each day is a little better. I know I'll feel much better once I get through the next couple days and the next week. Going to head downtown with some friends for the New Years and ring in a new beginning to my life. I'm also poised to hear some excellent news in January... I 'should' have two pending job offers to embark on the career of my dreams. Come on 2010 bring me a healed heart and a new career! Also I'll soon be a first time home owner. Much to be excited for in 2010... Link to post Share on other sites
Eisenhower Posted December 25, 2009 Share Posted December 25, 2009 I hope and pray that one year from today, I will be in another state, with a new job and new life, and so far removed emotionally from the hell I'm enduring now that I'll think of my ex and wonder, "Why in the world did I care so much about HER?" Then, I will snap out of it and hold my new love close and kiss her gently on the forehead as she falls asleep in my arms in front of a fire. By the way, I will have heard a couple days before from a mutual friend that she's now on her third or maybe even fourth post-divorce boyfriend, and occasionally is seen crying, realizing what an incredible fool she was to let me go! (that last part is just out of selfishness, but what the heck - we're imagining here!) Eisenhower Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 25, 2009 Author Share Posted December 25, 2009 So excited for you, Kantor! All of you guys have great goals. I have to remember that in December of 2008, I was getting over some OTHER ex! I hadn't even met the one I am dealing with now until a couple of months later! You NEVER know who you will meet. I just know I need to be self-aware of who I get involved with next time. First sign that it is unhealthy and I am going to give one shot to fix it...and if no go...leave! Link to post Share on other sites
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