meanon Posted December 29, 2003 Share Posted December 29, 2003 An affair may seem like the easy way out now but the mess and pain it will cause may well make your situation worse not better. There is a contradiction in your assessment of your marriage. At first you say you just need sex but later you say your husband is selfish and egotistical, that you are scared to talk to him and that he has a really bad temper. I know raising kids means you put other's needs first but it sounds like your marriage has also contributed to this need to put yourself first. Really is sounds like you can not be yourself in many ways in this marriage. It may be that the need for sex is just the tip of the iceberg in a list of many unfulfilled wants and needs. Please consider ending your marriage - this will be kinder to yourself, your children and him in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
figuringitout Posted January 2, 2004 Share Posted January 2, 2004 Coming at this as a guy who has been cheated on - 1. You'll rip out his core being if you do it. Just be aware of it. He may be a real prick from what you described...but then people in your situation usually make their spouses seem like Satan in order to justify the act. If he is not, you will crush him for the rest of his life. If he really is, get out of the marriage, then find someone. If he is somewhere in between, lay it all out on the table and see how he reacts - you'll see the true colors. 2. You can never go back. Once you do it, it will never be the same for either of you. Link to post Share on other sites
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