Surprise Threesome Idea

[xSSx]

I have an idea for a threesome that I think my girlfriend will love, except, it would have to be a surprise.

 

First off, I will give you some background info.

I have been with my g/f for 4 years and our sex life is great. We have never been in a threesome. We have talked about threesomes before and agreed to try FFM. It never happened though, because we couldn't find the right person.

 

My g/f is also into light bondage. No rough stuff. Just being tied up and blindfolded is all she likes.

 

Now here is my idea for MMF:

I was thinking about taking her out one night; dinner, movie, then to a hotel room, then massage, jacuzzi, candle light, etc. Then comes the foreplay with light bondage. After shes tied up and can't see, I want to bring another guy into the room. That is the surprise. She will not know anything about it. Me and the other guy would do our trick then. My objective is to not ever let her see what this guy looks like. There will also be no talking by either of us so that she doesn't know who is who. (even though she should know my touch by now) Once we are done, he will leave before I remove the blind folds.

 

Please let me know what you think of this. I'm not sure if its something that should be discussed or if it is ok for this to happen. Shes pretty easy going and I could add a couple drinks into the mix to get things more relaxed prior to sex.

 

Also, please don't reply with the negative effects of threesomes in general. It is something that we have discussed and we are both willing to risk. Our relationship is very stable. Thanks in advance.

[andy.macca]

To me it sounds a little risky. I mean if it were me I would want to see the stranger.

[TaraMaiden]

I have an idea for a threesome that I think my girlfriend will love, except, it would have to be a surprise.

 

First off, I will give you some background info.

I have been with my g/f for 4 years and our sex life is great. We have never been in a threesome. We have talked about threesomes before and agreed to try FFM. It never happened though, because we couldn't find the right person.

 

My g/f is also into light bondage. No rough stuff. Just being tied up and blindfolded is all she likes.

 

Now here is my idea for MMF:

I was thinking about taking her out one night; dinner, movie, then to a hotel room, then massage, jacuzzi, candle light, etc. Then comes the foreplay with light bondage. After shes tied up and can't see, I want to bring another guy into the room. That is the surprise. She will not know anything about it. Me and the other guy would do our trick then. My objective is to not ever let her see what this guy looks like. There will also be no talking by either of us so that she doesn't know who is who. (even though she should know my touch by now) Once we are done, he will leave before I remove the blind folds.

 

I'm really unsure about the blindfold thing.

What you're thinking about (and I can see why you think it might be exciting) is actually a bit more than 'controlling'; it's domination in a way.

All I can say is that if you start this, and go through with it, the moment she might (and I do say might) express any resistance or unwillingness, you stop, immediately and unconditionally.

I'm sure you know your GF best, but even so, our best-loved and best-known partners can still surprise us.

It's one thing to fantasise, but quite another to put it into practice - especially as a great big surprise.....

Please let me know what you think of this. I'm not sure if its something that should be discussed or if it is ok for this to happen. Shes pretty easy going and I could add a couple drinks into the mix to get things more relaxed prior to sex.

And - I'm sorry - but this rang alarm bells for me...

To add a couple of drinks to the mix to get things more relaxed, again, sounds like overstepping your boundaries.

It sounds like you might think you'd need to ply her with a drink to loosen her up a bit and reduce resistance.

I'm sure that's not the way you mean it -m but come the evening, would she see it that way, if she objects?

 

No.

I think if you're going to do this, you MUST be completely up-front and honest with her.

Do you have a guy in mind?

have you already lined him up?

Does she know him?

How would she feel about being phukked by a person she knows?

Or one she doesn't, for that matter?

 

Also, please don't reply with the negative effects of threesomes in general. It is something that we have discussed and we are both willing to risk. Our relationship is very stable. Thanks in advance.

 

The word 'risk' shouldn't even figure.....

'Try'? yes.

'Experiment with', maybe.

But 'risk'....?

 

Oh no, no, no, no, no.......